What would you do?

by **Reality,,its here.Accept it.** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 12:51 pm

Hello everybody,

I faced this situation very recently and i wanted to share it with the board and ask how the members would have reacted in a similar situation.

What would you do if it was the birthday of someone who is really special for you (not wife or girlfriend nor parents but someone whose significance can not be put in words but only be felt) and you are in situation where you can not contact her in any way so that you could wish her? Let me give is an example of the situation, you have a mobile and its the only way you can contact that person but its out of charge and you do not have any one around so that you could borrow one either. You do not know the phone number of that person nor the address.

What would you have done to wish that person?

(I know its already late to ask for advice but i wish this would help if i was ever caught in a similar situation.)

by **akhilis2cool** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 1:17 pm

Well if that person so significant it would mean that u will have a good understanding with him/her. Until and unless that person has laid a strict condition like 'u have to wish me else....' i wouldnt really worry coz the things are out of my control. but again a special person would not lay down such stoopid conditions.

by **CtrlAltDel** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 1:20 pm

well...if there is absolutely no way to contact her, i wud give her my belated greetings when i meet/talk to her next....

utta serious hone ka kya hai....?????

by **akhilis2cool** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 1:23 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:well...if there is absolutely no way to contact her, i wud give her my belated greetings when i meet/talk to her next....

utta serious hone ka kya hai....?????

eggjaktly.

by **marko** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 1:57 pm

Reality,,its here.Accept it. wrote:Hello everybody,
I faced this situation very recently and i wanted to share it with the board and ask how the members would have reacted in a similar situation.
What would you do if it was the birthday of someone who is really special for you (not wife or girlfriend nor parents but someone whose significance can not be put in words but only be felt) and you are in situation where you can not contact her in any way so that you could wish her? Let me give is an example of the situation, you have a mobile and its the only way you can contact that person but its out of charge and you do not have any one around so that you could borrow one either. You do not know the phone number of that person nor the address.

What would you have done to wish that person?
(I know its already late to ask for advice but i wish this would help if i was ever caught in a similar situation.)

i'd probably sit back, have a nice cold beer, and think of her. next time you see her tell her on her birthday you sat back, had a nice cold beer, and thought of her.

by **Sharjeel** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 5:02 pm

Everything they said.

Waise if it is a good friend of yours, it is better that you did not greet, becuase now she is gonna get angry and you will have to patao her. It is a lot of fun

, this pataoing and roothne wala business. Keeps the friendship fresh...

by **The Jackal** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 6:37 pm

Sharjeel wrote:Everything they said.

Waise if it is a good friend of yours, it is better that you did not greet, becuase now she is gonna get angry and you will have to patao her. It is a lot of fun , this pataoing and roothne wala business. Keeps the friendship fresh...

Wah what an advise!!!!!I will do that the next time.Thanks and BTW you are evil. :twisted:

by **~akidna~** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 7:37 pm

if u liked her so much...y dont u have her contact details......

well id have to agree with the rest but

if u got the money and u knew well before hand(and assuming money doesnot matter)

u shud have printed it in the paper

or better still koi billboard pe izhar kardete...

aur bhi faltoo idea hain....mere paas

by **Jaan** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 8:41 pm

A close friend of mine recently missed my birthday! I felt .... disappointed in him, not mad, definetely not mad.

Afterwards I understood why he hadnt called but it still hurts.

He wanted to buy me cool and expensive gifts but I opted for spending time with him later like movies or something because he wasn't there, so its call good now.

Don't take it so hard, there are holidays coming up (regardless of whether you celebrate) buy her something nice (flowers, apology card) its cute and its pataoing (Sharjeel's idea) and makes you look good again (just do to be on the safe side)

Jaan

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 11:09 pm

yeh ladki logan ka budday bahut dimaag kharab karta hai na :roll:

saala, I never remember any of my good friends budday's... sab unimportant logan ka budday yaad ko rehta.

Waise if it is a good friend of yours, it is better that you did not greet, becuase now she is gonna get angry and you will have to patao her. It is a lot of fun Smile, this pataoing and roothne wala business. Keeps the friendship fresh...

kaha yaar... aisa hi soch kar maine Jaanu ko uske budday pe wish nahi ki naa... woh ruthi nahi aur maine pataya nahii...

Now waittamin, does it mean she isnt a good friend of mine :shock:

by **Igiveadamn** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 11:16 pm

Mayavi Morpheus wrote:yeh ladki logan ka budday bahut dimaag kharab karta hai na
saala, I never remember any of my good friends budday's... sab unimportant logan ka budday yaad ko rehta.

Waise if it is a good friend of yours, it is better that you did not greet, becuase now she is gonna get angry and you will have to patao her. It is a lot of fun Smile, this pataoing and roothne wala business. Keeps the friendship fresh...

kaha yaar... aisa hi soch kar maine Jaanu ko uske budday pe wish nahi ki naa... woh ruthi nahi aur maine pataya nahii...
Now waittamin, does it mean she isnt a good friend of mine

Oh so that was you? tch tch tch tch tch!!! My empathies with you.

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Mon Nov 22, 2004 11:45 pm

Shes talking abt someone else, not me.

by **Igiveadamn** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 12:31 am

Mayavi Morpheus wrote:Shes talking abt someone else, not me.

tch tch cth! Such a waste.

by **daisy** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 2:36 am

she will have more birthdays right

give her belated greetings and wish her on time next year

by **lonewolf** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 7:54 am

A birthday lost is a birthday lost. There is no substitute to not getting the wishes through.

Wait another 365 or 366 days.

by **satishgoda** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 2:27 pm

i'd write a poem and show it to the person. and since the person is very dear, i'd hope that he/she would forgive me.

ok.

<self_dabba_mode on>

Here is some of my poetry.

http://heineken.cs.stevens-tech.edu/~sgoda/poetry.php

</self_dabba_mode_off>

Comments, suggestions and corrections are welcome. I am no major in English.

have fun.

- Satish.

by **akhilis2cool** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 2:30 pm

good peotry maan. u can surely patao here quickly with those lines

by **satishgoda** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 2:39 pm

akhilis2cool wrote:good peotry maan. u can surely patao here quickly with those lines

thank you for the appreciation Akhil.

have fun.

- Satish.

by **akhilis2cool** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 2:49 pm

we always have fun over here.

btw, cld. u give a small intro. of urself?

by **satishgoda** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 3:11 pm

akhilis2cool wrote:we always have fun over here.
btw, cld. u give a small intro. of urself?

As my id shows my name is Satish Goda. Lived in Hyd from 1985-2001, before that i lived in vizag, my birth place. I am a typical geek/nerd. Music+Food+3D Modeling+Programming+Games. You get the idea. Once in a while i write poetry.

After obtaining my bachelors in Mechatronics from MGIT http://mgit.ac.in/, I came to US for a master's in Computer Science from Stevens http://www.stevens.edu . Jan 03, 2004 will augur my 3 year stay and I am currently making preparations to come back to India by that date [I pray to god i get a ticket around dec 29 '04].

oops. its already 5 am here. got to sleep.

see you around folks.

- Satish.

by **satishgoda** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 3:12 pm

typo in above post. its 2005.

see i need to goto bed. :lol:

- Satish.

by **akhilis2cool** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 3:13 pm

good to see ppl. want to work in India.

India needs more ppl. like ya

by **san** » Tue Nov 23, 2004 8:22 pm

CRY! Get drunk and then cry a bit more. Soon you will forget what it was all about :lol:

OR

Be efficient and organised. If this person really meant so much you wouldn't have been in that situation tut tut tut!

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