I recently met a "cousin" of mine for the first time... he was very proud of the fact that he was particular about marrying a post graduate and even more particular that she pursue no career. This guy is an AVP in one of the private banks... I couldn't believe it. When we left their place, my mom said something about how sorry she felt for that girl... I didn't feel sorry for anyone except that guy... what kind of insecurity must lead him to insist on such stupid things. As far as the girl is concerned... I think she could have opted out... she knew this before marrying this guy and yet chose to marry him. Then why complain when relatives visit? That she wanted to pursue a career but that this guy is not letting her?
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Re: Insecurity
She should dump the assole(no offence).Shes a girl with a career,she would get many offers.BTW whats AVP?Arti wrote:I recently met a "cousin" of mine for the first time... he was very proud of the fact that he was particular about marrying a post graduate and even more particular that she pursue no career. This guy is an AVP in one of the private banks... I couldn't believe it. When we left their place, my mom said something about how sorry she felt for that girl... I didn't feel sorry for anyone except that guy... what kind of insecurity must lead him to insist on such stupid things. As far as the girl is concerned... I think she could have opted out... she knew this before marrying this guy and yet chose to marry him. Then why complain when relatives visit? That she wanted to pursue a career but that this guy is not letting her?
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Re: Insecurity
The Jackal wrote:She should dump the assole(no offence).Shes a girl with a career,she would get many offers.BTW whats AVP?
Yeah... my guess is that she likes to sit at home... but thinks its fashionable to crib. The guy is an Associate Vice President.
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Re: Insecurity
mebbe he wanted a highly qualified homemakerArti wrote:what kind of insecurity must lead him to insist on such stupid things.
he can boast abt to his friends "aaah y'know my wife is a PG. you shud see how clean she keeps our house...." btw...this is not to insult house wives...but i always felt that housewives need not be PGs or PhDs...its a waste of talent...
mebbe she did PG only to get a highly placed groom (many girls do that). mebbe thats wat she wants to be. who knows whats in her mind?Arti wrote:As far as the girl is concerned... I think she could have opted out... she knew this before marrying this guy and yet chose to marry him. Then why complain when relatives visit? That she wanted to pursue a career but that this guy is not letting her?
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Re: Insecurity
CtrlAltDel wrote:mebbe he wanted a highly qualified homemakerArti wrote:what kind of insecurity must lead him to insist on such stupid things.mebbe she did PG only to get a highly placed groom (many girls do that). mebbe thats wat she wants to be. who knows whats in her mind?Arti wrote:As far as the girl is concerned... I think she could have opted out... she knew this before marrying this guy and yet chose to marry him. Then why complain when relatives visit? That she wanted to pursue a career but that this guy is not letting her?
I have nothing against women becoming or being housewives. One of my cousins has chosen to be one. And she doesn't crib. She takes pride in keeping a spotlessly clean house... and cooking lovely stuff for her family... and baby cousins
)The question is why crib? And why did the guy have such a condition in the first place?
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Re: Insecurity
Hes your cousin you should know about him....Arti wrote:CtrlAltDel wrote:mebbe he wanted a highly qualified homemakerArti wrote:what kind of insecurity must lead him to insist on such stupid things.mebbe she did PG only to get a highly placed groom (many girls do that). mebbe thats wat she wants to be. who knows whats in her mind?Arti wrote:As far as the girl is concerned... I think she could have opted out... she knew this before marrying this guy and yet chose to marry him. Then why complain when relatives visit? That she wanted to pursue a career but that this guy is not letting her?
I have nothing against women becoming or being housewives. One of my cousins has chosen to be one. And she doesn't crib. She takes pride in keeping a spotlessly clean house... and cooking lovely stuff for her family... and baby cousins
The question is why crib? And why did the guy have such a condition in the first place?
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Re: Insecurity
yup! why crib? like u said maybe she feels its 'fashionable' to crib...Arti wrote:The question is why crib?
i already told u that...i think he just wants a highly qualified housewife whom he can boast about.Arti wrote:And why did the guy have such a condition in the first place?
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Re: Insecurity
I dont think its something great to boast about your wife....CtrlAltDel wrote:yup! why crib? like u said maybe she feels its 'fashionable' to crib...Arti wrote:The question is why crib?i already told u that...i think he just wants a highly qualified housewife whom he can boast about.Arti wrote:And why did the guy have such a condition in the first place?
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Re: Insecurity
The Jackal wrote:Hes your cousin you should know about him....Arti wrote:CtrlAltDel wrote:mebbe he wanted a highly qualified homemakerArti wrote:what kind of insecurity must lead him to insist on such stupid things.mebbe she did PG only to get a highly placed groom (many girls do that). mebbe thats wat she wants to be. who knows whats in her mind?Arti wrote:As far as the girl is concerned... I think she could have opted out... she knew this before marrying this guy and yet chose to marry him. Then why complain when relatives visit? That she wanted to pursue a career but that this guy is not letting her?
I have nothing against women becoming or being housewives. One of my cousins has chosen to be one. And she doesn't crib. She takes pride in keeping a spotlessly clean house... and cooking lovely stuff for her family... and baby cousins
The question is why crib? And why did the guy have such a condition in the first place?
"Cousin" is different from cousin... I've never met this guy before. I didn't even know I have a cousin like this... when I moved to Hyderabad, I was given his details and asked to get in touch with him... which I "promptly" forgot to do.
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Re: Insecurity
The Jackal wrote:I dont think its something great to boast about your wife....CtrlAltDel wrote:yup! why crib? like u said maybe she feels its 'fashionable' to crib...Arti wrote:The question is why crib?i already told u that...i think he just wants a highly qualified housewife whom he can boast about.Arti wrote:And why did the guy have such a condition in the first place?
Maybe some guys do... I don't know
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So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
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Arti wrote:The Jackal wrote:So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
Close ka to sawaal hi nahin paida hota... I've met him once in my life
Too bad.I feel bad for the girl... 
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The Jackal wrote:So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
Talk some sense into the guy? Why not talk some sense into the girl. Is she a baby? She's a graduate and she must be knowing what she wants in life. Why would she even stay at home if she weren't interested?
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Well this guy is a "AVP"(I am assuming it is a big position...igiveadamn wrote:The Jackal wrote:So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
Talk some sense into the guy? Why not talk some sense into the girl. Is she a baby? She's a graduate and she must be knowing what she wants in life. Why would she even stay at home if she weren't interested?
) so maybe she thinks she wouldnt get any more good "offers". Nom de dieu de putain de bordel de merde de saloperie de connard d'enculé de ta mère.:Merovingian,TMR
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The Jackal wrote:Well this guy is a "AVP"(I am assuming it is a big position...igiveadamn wrote:The Jackal wrote:So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
Talk some sense into the guy? Why not talk some sense into the girl. Is she a baby? She's a graduate and she must be knowing what she wants in life. Why would she even stay at home if she weren't interested?
I'm not even talking to them... leave alone talking sense into them
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Good Riddance huh!!!Arti wrote:The Jackal wrote:Well this guy is a "AVP"(I am assuming it is a big position...igiveadamn wrote:The Jackal wrote:So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
Talk some sense into the guy? Why not talk some sense into the girl. Is she a baby? She's a graduate and she must be knowing what she wants in life. Why would she even stay at home if she weren't interested?
I'm not even talking to them... leave alone talking sense into them
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The Jackal wrote:Good Riddance huh!!!Arti wrote:The Jackal wrote:Well this guy is a "AVP"(I am assuming it is a big position...igiveadamn wrote:The Jackal wrote:So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
Talk some sense into the guy? Why not talk some sense into the girl. Is she a baby? She's a graduate and she must be knowing what she wants in life. Why would she even stay at home if she weren't interested?
I'm not even talking to them... leave alone talking sense into them
I hope they're all not here on fullhyd
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I think the chances are pretty high.Most people in hyd use the net for porn.Arti wrote:The Jackal wrote:Good Riddance huh!!!Arti wrote:The Jackal wrote:Well this guy is a "AVP"(I am assuming it is a big position...igiveadamn wrote:The Jackal wrote:So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
Talk some sense into the guy? Why not talk some sense into the girl. Is she a baby? She's a graduate and she must be knowing what she wants in life. Why would she even stay at home if she weren't interested?
I'm not even talking to them... leave alone talking sense into them
I hope they're all not here on fullhyd
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The Jackal wrote:I think the chances are pretty high.Most people in hyd use the net for porn.Arti wrote:The Jackal wrote:Good Riddance huh!!!Arti wrote:The Jackal wrote:Well this guy is a "AVP"(I am assuming it is a big position...igiveadamn wrote:The Jackal wrote:So why dont you talk some sense into this guy?Or are you not that close to talk about these stuff.....?
Talk some sense into the guy? Why not talk some sense into the girl. Is she a baby? She's a graduate and she must be knowing what she wants in life. Why would she even stay at home if she weren't interested?
I'm not even talking to them... leave alone talking sense into them
I hope they're all not here on fullhyd
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Re: Insecurity
why not? if the husband is proud of his talented wife, wats wrong on boasting abt it...? parents boast abt their kids n so on, similarly spouses can boast abt each other...The Jackal wrote:dont think its something great to boast about your wife....
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Re: Insecurity
I meant it in a different sense.There is nothing wrong in doing that....but boasting about a PG who does house work is kinda weird.CtrlAltDel wrote:why not? if the husband is proud of his talented wife, wats wrong on boasting abt it...? parents boast abt their kids n so on, similarly spouses can boast abt each other...The Jackal wrote:dont think its something great to boast about your wife....
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Re: Insecurity
The Jackal wrote:I meant it in a different sense.There is nothing wrong in doing that....but boasting about a PG who does house work is kinda weird.CtrlAltDel wrote:why not? if the husband is proud of his talented wife, wats wrong on boasting abt it...? parents boast abt their kids n so on, similarly spouses can boast abt each other...The Jackal wrote:dont think its something great to boast about your wife....
Mujhko to yeh poora incident hi weird laga
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Re: Insecurity
Alright, the only sense I can find in this whole thing is that the guy wanted his girl to be a housewife, but be well educated and well behaved (PG people are that, and more), and also he wanted someone who could work if need be.Arti wrote:Mujhko to yeh poora incident hi weird laga
Sometimes things look very biased and unfair from the outside, but they are actually quite nice for both the parties concerned. We can never say.
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Re: Insecurity
Sharjeel wrote:Alright, the only sense I can find in this whole thing is that the guy wanted his girl to be a housewife, but be well educated and well behaved (PG people are that, and more), and also he wanted someone who could work if need be.Arti wrote:Mujhko to yeh poora incident hi weird laga
Sometimes things look very biased and unfair from the outside, but they are actually quite nice for both the parties concerned. We can never say.
But isn't it wrong for one person to decide what the other one should do?
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