Alexis wrote:I wanna know what you wanna say even if its something against me.
OK... And it is not against you. I don’t think anything bad about you. I think you are a sweet person.
Before I start this: Let me say; I have no grudges against anyone… No hidden agendas or issues. I like everyone on this board. I think people are really nice here.
SS wrote: They are one male and one female one who is a kin to me, always spamming with dirrrty topics ( dirty talk i mean wayyy dirty talk)
While what SS said has some relevance... her message was rather personal. She named people who she thought were involved in what she calls “dirrrty talk”. Moralities apart… I think I would be shocked if I find lengthy "transcripts" of someone close to me involved in chitchat of that kind. I don’t know if I would react the same way but that’s me. More than anything I think she was reacting to it because she thought it was *yuk* to be talking details of such kind with people you hardly know. I mean you know them but “Do you really know them”. When she reacted this way, I see her concern in it. I think that is very sweet. I respect that. But maybe I am wrong in my opinion here!
I understand when you click with people... you start trusting them and share details that you normally wouldn’t. And talk’s like these are not harmless they are harm-full. In some ways it amounts to infidelity. You invest your emotions and those emotions maybe for someone else. You might think it is play-full banter but it isn’t. How would you like it if your mate talks about someone’s anatomy in a “DIFFERENT” way! I won’t do it and I wouldn’t like it. FYI: Such talk doesn’t happen between friends. I have really good friends in both the genders… We share "details"… but we always respect personal boundaries. Also GUY talk happens between guys and I dont know what girls talk about!
Talking on the phone or chat is different. That’s between two people. On FHDB it’s different… do you really want to share everything that you talk about with ALL and SUNDRY. And message boards are notorious for storing details over years.
I am not saying I am a Saint and I am certainly not the Moral Police of FullHYD.com. But there has been a dearth of topics that I feel like writing to these days. So... I don’t post a lot. I have found some really nice people here and that’s what makes me come back. I do indulge in “badmashi” some times. As I said I am no Saint.
So, there it is and don’t take it personally. I feel everyone has a right to be heard. If SS felt like saying something, she should be heard.
And I think her nakhra is sweet. Chalo manate hain chutki ko!

Kahan hai Chutki... Chal Maan Ja SS. Itna bhi gussa acha nahin!

~badmash~