Pieces of Me................

[SimarikSmokin]

Hi, Resh is back with a "Brand New Invention" but i didn't invent anything but i do have couple of question so "Don't Hate me"



Do you ever feel like your life is like a jigsaw puzzle? like you try to make it as simple as you can but you can't fit the pieces in?



Well sometimes i try to do it with my family like i try to do everything as much as i can, but i feel like i am not to their expectations. But they still love me.



So is you life frustrating? too much going on? or laid back, you are ready for adventure?



I am laid back, funny, laughs at a drop of a hat, active reallllllllly hyper and too affectionate.

[Aquarian81]

You do a lot for us SS, and we appreciate it just as much.

I feel like Im not living up to people's standards most of the time as well. I think its just human nature.

I cant bare to fail, because its not expected of me. Maybe because Im the middle child................? I dont know? Whatever the reason is, all I know is that people expect me to be perfect--ALWAYS.

[MoonMist]

Well, even i feel that i m not upto the expectations of my family, my friends, and all my loved ones.. but i think this is human nature to pine for things or characters which u don't possess. But the very genuine "You" is liked and loved by the ppl around u for what u r. Phir bhi, I have to say that I feel very frustrated at times. Like when I m too busy with my workplace and i don't help at home or i wanna buy a gift for some friend and i can't do it, cuz i have run outta my dough... Will add more as i remember.

[Alexis]

Hi, Resh is back with a "Brand New Invention" but i didn't invent anything but i do have couple of question so "Don't Hate me"

Do you ever feel like your life is like a jigsaw puzzle? like you try to make it as simple as you can but you can't fit the pieces in?

Well sometimes i try to do it with my family like i try to do everything as much as i can, but i feel like i am not to their expectations. But they still love me.

So is you life frustrating? too much going on? or laid back, you are ready for adventure?

I am laid back, funny, laughs at a drop of a hat, active reallllllllly hyper and too affectionate.

Life is a jigsaw puzzle anyway, anyone will say that. We all have family and work pressures and dealing with them is a colossal task. We might not always come out perfect, but the fact that we made an effort and gave it our all is more than enough. No ones perfect, so trying to be is simply useless.

Im a pretty laid back kinda person, unless the situation calls for something else. I am calm and dont panic easily. And when its time to have fun, Im a totally different person cuz I let my spontaneity take over and I get all crazy...in a good way.

[asli_badmash]

We might not always come out perfect, but the fact that we made an effort and gave it our all is more than enough.

Awesome! Nicely put... Thats the way to go SS.

~badmash~

[Alexis]

AB, you didnt say how it is with you?

[asli_badmash]

AB, you didnt say how it is with you?

Do I have to.. All I wanted to do was ack that you out it very nicely... Do you see any other guy making a post here. Everybody know this is a trap...



BTW; I am not that DEEP. *tries to escape by making a vague comment*



*Stops and thinks..* awww what the heck..



Yep life is complicated.. All I worry about is "Did I poop properly in the morning and before I got to sleep". Apart from that I take things the way they come. I mean I am a go getter when it matters; but I dont let failure get to me. I always say 'Its not important if you reach the goal; but its important to try and the rest is in Allah hands"... woh de to kush... wo na de to bhi kush.. I did my job HONESTLY.. thats what counts. And I try to be fair and JUST with people around me; and I value my word.. I am a PATHAN... I have to. Jo bool diya woh pathar ki lakir.. else I dont commit myself.

I love my family to death and specially my mum... she is the sweetest person in the world. Awww... now I am all MUSHY...

~badmash~

[Alexis]

AB, you didnt say how it is with you?

Do I have to.. All I wanted to do was ack that you out it very nicely... Do you see any other guy making a post here. Everybody know this is a trap...

BTW; I am not that DEEP. *tries to escape by making a vague comment*

*Stops and thinks..* awww what the heck..

Yep life is complicated.. All I worry about is "Did I poop properly in the morning and before I got to sleep". Apart from that I take things the way they come. I mean I am a go getter when it matters; but I dont let failure get to me. I always say 'Its not important if you reach the goal; but its important to try and the rest is in Allah hands"... woh de to kush... wo na de to bhi kush.. I did my job HONESTLY.. thats what counts. And I try to be fair and JUST with people around me; and I value my word.. I am a PATHAN... I have to. Jo bool diya woh pathar ki lakir.. else I dont commit myself.
I love my family to death and specially my mum... she is the sweetest person in the world. Awww... now I am all MUSHY...
~badmash~

Very good! I have a lof of faith in ALLAH too, and believe that whatever is destined to be, will be.

So youre a Pathan, huh? When you said, "Jo bool diya woh pathar ki lakir", I couldnt suppress a giggle because thats the very line another Pathan used on me some time ago.

But I know that Pathans do keep their word and theyre all very close-knit. Good people.

[asli_badmash]

But I know that Pathans do keep their word and theyre all very close-knit. Good people.

"Jo bool diya woh pathar ki lakir"... It’s a “done to death” kinda statement.. But what the heck I thought I would use it any way.



Yep Pathans are close knit people.. but you know I am not that close to my cousins.. I show my Pathanishness with my friends. I am loyal with a Capital L. And I thank god for every person in my life. I love and cherish them all. Pathans are all emotional people you know... Pal mein gussa pal mein pyar. But for me family and my friends above every thing else...



Another line I use a lot... when some one says thanks.. I say..."Tere liye kuch bhi(Anything for you)" kinda filmi but it I mean it.



So who is the other pathan you are talking about.. can I ask?? someone from FHDB ...



~badmash~

[black wizard]

this is one of my favourite songs...



I'm lying broken under jagged pieces

Of burned out bridges

Suffocating I can't breathe

No direction

I'm scattered in the breeze

Living on memories



Everywhere I look

As far as I can see

Broken promises, broken promises

Pieces of me...



I'm drowning, choking

Falling deeper into this

Black hole we call living

And I can't breathe

No connection

I scattered in the breeze

Living on memories



Everywhere I look

As far as I can see

Broken promises, broken promises

Pieces of me...



All that I remember now

Are people and shadows



Everywhere I look

As far as I can see

Broken promises, broken promises

Pieces of me...

[asli_badmash]

this is one of my favourite songs...
I'm lying broken under jagged pieces
Of burned out bridges
Suffocating I can't breathe
....
Broken promises, broken promises
Pieces of me...

Nice..

~badmash~

[Alexis]

But I know that Pathans do keep their word and theyre all very close-knit. Good people.

"Jo bool diya woh pathar ki lakir"... It’s a “done to death” kinda statement.. But what the heck I thought I would use it any way.

Yep Pathans are close knit people.. but you know I am not that close to my cousins.. I show my Pathanishness with my friends. I am loyal with a Capital L. And I thank god for every person in my life. I love and cherish them all. Pathans are all emotional people you know... Pal mein gussa pal mein pyar. But for me family and my friends above every thing else...

Another line I use a lot... when some one says thanks.. I say..."Tere liye kuch bhi(Anything for you)" kinda filmi but it I mean it.

So who is the other pathan you are talking about.. can I ask?? someone from FHDB ...

~badmash~

Not close to your cousins?! Im VERY close to mine, and I have a huge extended family, both naniyaal and dadiyaal.



The other Pathan is not from the DB, how many others are there anyway? He was this guy I met in India during my last trip. He was tall, had longish hair, and was quite good-looking. I believe he lived in Mehdipatnam, but was in and out of Bombay cuz he was some sort of model or something. I forgot his name, you might have known him. Who knows?



Black Wizard, nice song..........but you have to speak on topic. Reread SS's post and reply. Thank you

[CtrlAltDel]

He was tall, had longish hair, and was quite good-looking. I believe he lived in Mehdipatnam, but was in and out of Bombay cuz he was some sort of model or something. I forgot his name, you might have known him. Who knows?

sound like he cud be one of a coupla guys i know...will PM u later with their names...if they turn out my friends, i can pull their legs a bit...

[Alexis]

He was tall, had longish hair, and was quite good-looking. I believe he lived in Mehdipatnam, but was in and out of Bombay cuz he was some sort of model or something. I forgot his name, you might have known him. Who knows?

sound like he cud be one of a coupla guys i know...will PM u later with their names...if they turn out my friends, i can pull their legs a bit...

Really?!! Haha, I'll be looking forward to that PM with their names.

[SimarikSmokin]

WEll i love my life right now i have a family and people who care and understand me but sometimes i feel why i was put here but iknow for a test, if i would listen to the devil or allah. But they are some pieces of me that i need someone to fit them in

[asli_badmash]

WEll i love my life right now i have a family and people who care and understand me

I am sure they love you too..

but sometimes i feel why i was put here but iknow for a test, if i would listen to the devil or allah.

At the risk of being called a Salman Rushie wannabe I say.. But how do you know who is speaking to you! But seriously.. You know .. follow your heart and be true to yourself. Thats what counts! Nobody is perfect we make mistakes.. but important thing is we should learn from them and move on. And our families will always love us no matter who we are. As my mum says "All Allah asks of you is to be a Nice Muslim." Dont ask me what a Nice Muslim is.. The Holy Quran has it all.

But they are some pieces of me that i need someone to fit them in

Maybe I can introduce you to my good friend.. Mr.TIME. Time puts all the puzzles togather! In the end everything works out just fine. You will see. I say that by experience.

~badmash~

[azazel]

if life was a jagsaw puzzle, for me.. it would've been like the pieces were scattered all over the place.. but still, somehow some way, everything comes together .. one thing we should learn to digest is, we cant have our way all the time..

jo hota hai ache ke liye hi hota hai --> i believe in that..

[Alexis]

jo hota hai ache ke liye hi hota hai --> i believe in that..

I believe in tha too, Az. I also believe in kismat. So whatever happens is because that is whats written in the stars for you.

[azazel]

I believe in tha too, Az. I also believe in kismat. So whatever happens is because that is whats written in the stars for you.

good for us..

sab kismat ki baat hai, but tht doesnt mean one just stops trying to achieve wht one wants..

[SimarikSmokin]

i would definantly say that one piece of my puzzle is missing which is a good brain! piece hahahhahahahhhahahhahahahahah I RULE! seriously i need to get more smarter but yeah my piece is lost can you guys help me fit my piece in

[Alexis]

I believe in tha too, Az. I also believe in kismat. So whatever happens is because that is whats written in the stars for you.

good for us..
sab kismat ki baat hai, but tht doesnt mean one just stops trying to achieve wht one wants..

Just hope (and work) for the best but prepare for the worst.

[black wizard]

i I RULE!

raaaaaiyt

seriously i need to get more smarter

you can say that again

[CtrlAltDel]

Just hope (and work) for the best but prepare for the worst.

^^^ this is the philosophy i ususally follow, esp the prepare for the worst" part. everything i plan is considered using the worst case scenario and this has saved me in more than one occassion.

[azazel]

seriously i need to get more smarter

you can say that again

so do u .. u @#$$%%^^



p.s: all those who dare to bug SS shallth be gored mercilessly into oblivion ...

[black wizard]

seriously i need to get more smarter

you can say that again

so do u .. u @#$$%%^^

p.s: all those who dare to bug SS shallth be gored mercilessly into oblivion ...

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