Your Role Model

[asli_badmash]

Like i care what people think of me you can hate me or love me i don't care, i am the type of people who doesn't care of you call me a bitch or anything bad like that. I wanted to make sure that i hate the fact that people tale this board so seriously oh look i can't say that because he or she might hate me. I don't really care i am sick of my sister telling me to care what people say about me. If you think i am a blonde then think, if you think i am stupid than do. I know this is off topic but its been bothering so much and i am just so mad right now.

wow! what an attitude....u r my role model now SS...

You go GIRL! Show them... They dont know who they are MESSING WITH.

~badmash~

[asli_badmash]

And about this impromptu post, this expression sums up what I think of it:

You are being tough on SS. I think she has a right to express herself. Its good to care about what people think of you. But if you keep worrying about what the world thinks about you. You can never be what you are; you cant please everyone. Yes you have to be respectful of other people and their opinions; but if they tread on your foot. KICK ASS; is all I have to say.



Maybe I was wrong to say all this... maybe you know her better than I do. But she has always been a sweet little girl.



~badmash~

[azazel]

chalo ye kal tak jo polygon tha ab ^^^ hexagon hogaya...

[ZC]

chalo ye kal tak jo polygon tha ab ^^^ hexagon hogaya...

isnt hexagon a polygon pentagon mean

[asli_badmash]

chalo ye kal tak jo polygon tha ab ^^^ hexagon hogaya...

Mere ku to baazu ich rakho maamujaan. Apan NRI logan se ankhan nahin milate. NRI loogaan aate... shoppingaan karte... wapas chale jaate.. kahan ki krikiri bhai.. shoppingaan karao.. ice-creamaan khilao... Apne Hyderabad ke Burkha-walliyan ich kafi hai apne ku. Nako apne to mini-skirt walle.. khatarnak cheezaan hai bhoot woh. Apan dur ich ache hai. Dur se dekhna... ek do seeti maar lena... khatam ghar wapas burkhe wali ke pass chale jaana. Thaaaandi rehti zindagi..



BTW; Dont HYD muslim women look like Ninja's. I mean the way they dress up in Burkhas they look like typical NINJAS from a Kung-fu movie. Dont you think so. If they stand in a dark corner you wouldnt even know anyones there... Heheheheh

~badmash~

[azazel]

^^^ exact reason even i was scramming from the whtevegon it has become now..



vaise burkhewaaliyo ku kam nakko samjho bava.. aaj-kal unka bhi bharosa nahee.. khatarnaak hogaye yaaro sab.. uppar se burkha, niche jeans/skirt sob ich hai..

[MoonMist]

^^^ exact reason even i was scramming from the whtevegon it has become now..

vaise burkhewaaliyo ku kam nakko samjho bava.. aaj-kal unka bhi bharosa nahee.. khatarnaak hogaye yaaro sab.. uppar se burkha, niche jeans/skirt sob ich hai..

Hey u 2 even i wear a burkha.. so b careful while commenting on someone wearing one!! But whats wrong in wearing Jeans/skirt in a burkha as long as u dont try to show off what u r wearing under a burkha... and if it covers me head to toe, be it western wear or Indian wear, i m comfortable both with it.

[azazel]

Hey u 2 even i wear a burkha.. so b careful while commenting on someone wearing one!! But whats wrong in wearing Jeans/skirt in a burkha as long as u dont try to show off what u r wearing under a burkha... and if it covers me head to toe, be it western wear or Indian wear, i m comfortable both with it.

oye.. calm down.. was just having a lil' fun.. damn, should've added a "no offence" p.s there.. *phew*

[asli_badmash]

Hey u 2 even i wear a burkha.. so b careful while commenting on someone wearing one!! But whats wrong in wearing Jeans/skirt in a burkha as long as u dont try to show off what u r wearing under a burkha... and if it covers me head to toe, be it western wear or Indian wear, i m comfortable both with it.

We were not commenting on people wearing burkha. We like people wearing BURKHAS. I was of the opinion that I prefer Burkha-Wallis(read nice girls) from hyd and not NRI nakhra-wallis. And Azazel was of the opinion that these days burkha-wallis are also nakhra-wallis. So you see we were not talking about the BURKHA in anyway, just the burkha as an attribute of the group of people we were referring to.



But seriously what is the point wearing a mini-skirt or a JING-BANG dress under a burkha. In some ways we show off the clothes we wear and they make an impression about who we are. The burkha kinda takes that away from a lady. I see the BURKHA as a curb on individual expression. In this age it hardly serves the purpose that it was designed to serve a long time ago. But that is a whole another point.



IMO, Burkha works on the principle of "security by anonymity". But my point is "If you wear burkha do you have to give up everything for SECURITY? Is it worth it? Does the BURKHA actually protect you?"



Don’t mean to PRY open the Pandora’s box.. I was just musing. No offense meant to anybody



~badmash~

[ZC]

Question:



y shud u wear anything under a BURKHA ?????????????????????????????????

[Alexis]

And about this impromptu post, this expression sums up what I think of it:

You are being tough on SS. I think she has a right to express herself. Its good to care about what people think of you. But if you keep worrying about what the world thinks about you. You can never be what you are; you cant please everyone. Yes you have to be respectful of other people and their opinions; but if they tread on your foot. KICK ASS; is all I have to say.

Maybe I was wrong to say all this... maybe you know her better than I do. But she has always been a sweet little girl.

~badmash~

Sure she can express herself...........I didnt mean anything bad by my last comment. She ticked me off yesterday, so it was in response to that. If it were any other day, I would have just laughed after reading that. She was venting and I wanted to piss her off more by posting

What a good sister I am, huh?!!! LOL!!!!

[MoonMist]

Hey u 2 even i wear a burkha.. so b careful while commenting on someone wearing one!! But whats wrong in wearing Jeans/skirt in a burkha as long as u dont try to show off what u r wearing under a burkha... and if it covers me head to toe, be it western wear or Indian wear, i m comfortable both with it.

oye.. calm down.. was just having a lil' fun.. damn, should've added a "no offence" p.s there.. *phew*

Hey hey, i dint take it THAT seriously like u 2 r thinking... these boards r just to say out what u feel without getting hindered, so thats what i have done too. Nothing less, nothing more.



But I know the glances i get cuz of my burkha.. Just bcoz i wear one it duzn't mean that I m a typical Charminar/old city kinda girl [no offence meant (being on the safe side u c ] . It is the thot process and the attitude that counts, not what u wear and what u don't.. jeez.. i think i m going down the feminist lane.. so lemme stop here... Again, i have enjoyed this talk and i have not taken anything personally Az and Badmash.

[Alexis]

So what if a girl wears a mini or jeans under the burkha? Its not like shes showing it (the clothes) off.



Vaise, burkha pehno ya na pehno, ladkiyon ko pehle ankhoun pe parda hona chahiye.

[asli_badmash]

So what if a girl wears a mini or jeans under the burkha? Its not like shes showing it (the clothes) off.

You miss the point.. Clothes are worn to be shown off and to create an opinion about you. If you dont mean to show the clothes off why wear that Gucci or versace dress. They make a statement.. and in this world; sentiments apart; statements do count. I am all for showing it off. If you got it.. show it.

Vaise, burkha pehno ya na pehno, ladkiyon ko pehle ankhoun pe parda hona chahiye.

You mean they have to have dark shades on all the time. Is that what you meant by "ankhoun pe parda "???

~badmash~

[The Rainmaker]

Vaise, burkha pehno ya na pehno, ladkiyon ko pehle ankhoun pe parda hona chahiye.

moral policing? that too a girl saying this??

[Alexis]

So what if a girl wears a mini or jeans under the burkha? Its not like shes showing it (the clothes) off.

You miss the point.. Clothes are worn to be shown off and to create an opinion about you. If you dont mean to show the clothes off why wear that Gucci or versace dress. They make a statement.. and in this world; sentiments apart; statements do count. I am all for showing it off. If you got it.. show it.

Vaise, burkha pehno ya na pehno, ladkiyon ko pehle ankhoun pe parda hona chahiye.

You mean they have to have dark shades on all the time. Is that what you meant by "ankhoun pe parda "???
~badmash~

Its a metaphor. In Islam, men and women are supposed to have this invisible parda over their eyes. Meaning, they should filter out or avoid seeing bad things. Ok, I dont wanna get all into religious basics now. Chodo.



Rainie, its not moral policing! Im just saying what I know.

[The Rainmaker]

Its a metaphor. In Islam, men and women are supposed to have this invisible parda over their eyes. Meaning, they should filter out or avoid seeing bad things. Ok, I dont wanna get all into religious basics now. Chodo.

hey alexis.. i know about islam.. the sentence you're talking about is

"all ye believing men, lower your gaze"

am i right?



anyhow, that also translates into "dont date men/women.. get into relationships before marriage". do u believe in that?

[Alexis]

Its a metaphor. In Islam, men and women are supposed to have this invisible parda over their eyes. Meaning, they should filter out or avoid seeing bad things. Ok, I dont wanna get all into religious basics now. Chodo.

hey alexis.. i know about islam.. the sentence you're talking about is
"all ye believing men, lower your gaze"
am i right?

Absolutely correct, Rainie!

anyhow, that also translates into "dont date men/women.. get into relationships before marriage". do u believe in that?

I believe in that, surely. But I cant say that Ive followed it to the T. I did go out, and I still have guy friends. ALLAH maaf kare. Thats all I'll hope for.

[The Rainmaker]

well ok.. god bless you

[Habitual Perfectionist]

Vaise, burkha pehno ya na pehno, ladkiyon ko pehle ankhoun pe parda hona chahiye.

moral policing? that too a girl saying this??

Moral policing. A girl, and that too Alexis saying this.



LOL!!

[Alexis]

Vaise, burkha pehno ya na pehno, ladkiyon ko pehle ankhoun pe parda hona chahiye.

moral policing? that too a girl saying this??

Moral policing. A girl, and that too Alexis saying this.

LOL!!

HP!!!! I resent that!!!



Look, I wasnt lecturing or policing.....I was just saying how its supposed to be done. Im not a fool, I know hardly any one does it the way theyre supposed to. I dont do it, and I dont preach what I myself dont practice. And Im not ashamed to admit it. Atleast I can speak the truth.



HP, were still cool though.

[Habitual Perfectionist]

Hey...I saw this comment by ainmaker and decided to have some more fun. It was just a joke.



And Alexis....we're cooler than ever before. I just got myself some mints.

[Alexis]

Hey...I saw this comment by ainmaker and decided to have some more fun. It was just a joke.

I know that! I can take a joke, you know.

[azazel]

y shud u wear anything under a BURKHA ?????????????????????????????????

aap chainese hain kya??

[Alexis]

y shud u wear anything under a BURKHA ?????????????????????????????????

aap chainese hain kya??