Fiddler wrote:CtrlAltDel wrote:nothing much from the vaporman since yesterday...
hope it isnt the calm before the storm....

Don't tempt fate, my friend. Things smell much better around here with his vapour locked


I concur, Fiddler!
vapourlock wrote:me in france now,seen the women around here..tell u what?our so called mod women have a lot to learn..and how much..goodness..
women in paris?bold,outright invidualistic..
crap like "i will ask my hubby n tell you".."i gotta see if he would give me permission to work"..."are u nuts?he would kill me if he knew that i even saw u today"..chee chee..
what say ladies?
Marriage is a very honorable institution that not only requires fidelity, but mutual understanding , commitment, and compromise.
If a woman says, "I'll ask my hubby n tell you", thats a good thing. It doesnt mean hes the dominant one who calls the shots. It means that she wont do anything until they both agree on it. The same should go for the husbands. And in America, Ive seen that. Men dont want to do much until they get their wives say in it.
Permission to work? Well, I wouldnt say 'permission'. See, if the wife lives a joint family with kids running around, and elderly folk who need tending to a lot---Then the woman should think about whether she could handle a job and housework together. And juggling the two can be virtually impossible. So unless she has the cooperation of the other wives in the joint family, she shouldnt venture into the job-world.
If the couple live together, with one or two children in tow---then she can surely still work. As long as theres a nanny or reliable servant who can take care of the kids while shes putting in her 9 to 5. But a mothers first job is to be a mother, that my opinion. If she wants and her husband agrees to it, then an outside job can be successful.