Then, Why don't ALL men RAPE?

[azazel]

Still do not agree with gg2m that sexual frustration is the reason behind rape. It has nothing to do with it. You want an outlet for that go to a hooker, and many men do that. Rape is all about power. And, it is that twisted feeling that drives people to rape.

its a bunch of things man.. sexual frustration/power/desire to humiliate the person.. all in all, its prolly one of the worst crimes tht can be committed n they shouldnt go unpunished man.. coz tht'll be even worse than the rape

[ZC]

Was reading a book that made a good point. I’ll quote, why do some men rape? Rather in a society where dominance and subordination are eroticized, why don’t all men rape?

Jaan

once i got a dought.............long long ago........



i asked:



Do fundamentalist-terrorists mastrubate/have sex



i said:



probably they dont, these acts are the result/manifestation of controlling/suppressing ones desires..........



ONLY WHEN PRESSURE INCREASES, THE BALOON BURSTS

[Lucifer]

its a bunch of things man.. sexual frustration/power/desire to humiliate the person.. all in all, its prolly one of the worst crimes tht can be committed n they shouldnt go unpunished man.. coz tht'll be even worse than the rape

Whether it is rape or any other crime that derogates the dignity of a human-being, it should be dealt with severely. Read in DC today that Nicole Kidman in her forthcoming movie gets naked with a 10 year old boy and even kisses him on the lips. That to me is paedophilia - art be damned! Don't know whether she was influenced by her current boy-friend Lenny Kravitz or not but she has engaged in child molestation. The only reason she might be able to get away with it is that she is a woman and, unfortunately, we do not perceive women as sexual predators in our society.

[Fiddler]

Contemplate this quote from 'The Mexican':



"Rape is not a crime of attraction, it's a crime of anger."

[CtrlAltDel]

"Rape is not a crime of attraction, it's a crime of anger."

arre Fiddler, aaj kal kya hua re? yahan pe dikhra ich nahin...

[Jaan]

Was reading a book that made a good point.

May i ask which book??

Understanding Sexual Violence by Scully.

[Jaan]

But, Jaan, I read another book. And it said that every person has the desire to rape. It is only because they have the fear of being caught that they don't. Seems profound, doesn't it?

Yes, but the counterpoint would be, how long they can go at it before getting caught. Thrill factor and the old explanation of robber vs. cop theory.



Jaan

[Jaan]

what is a rape?

It can also be.........

Wife forcing Husband for sex
Husband forcing wife for sex.........

force meaning, doing it when not actually interested/tired etc etc.....not literally tearing the clothes apart like a movie

A rape can be defined into many situations. The correct definition being: having forced sex with someone; usually a stranger. since these type of crimes tend to be committed by antisocial personalities, usually anways, it is not a domestic issue

[Jaan]

Whether it is rape or any other crime that derogates the dignity of a human-being, it should be dealt with severely. .

Agreed. Did you know that the crime of rape constitutes as the lowest order in prison's social ladder? men who go in for rape dont like to say what they are in for.

men usually rape if they have a disorder [usually one that they think their women does not satisfy, when hte problem lies with the male] the other reason always given and accepted is childhood abuse factor: where a MALE did the actual abusing, these types usually give the excuse of proving their dominance over lesser beings [such as women in their perception].

the fascinating thing is that whatever disorder/excuse/abuse/belief they have: it is pre-med: they do it intentionally and consciously while committing the crime



Jaan

[ZC]

what is a rape?

It can also be.........

Wife forcing Husband for sex
Husband forcing wife for sex.........

force meaning, doing it when not actually interested/tired etc etc.....not literally tearing the clothes apart like a movie

A rape can be defined into many situations. The correct definition being: having forced sex with someone; usually a stranger. since these type of crimes tend to be committed by antisocial personalities, usually anways, it is not a domestic issue

thats y asked.........did anyone of u watch: Disclosure......atleast the dictionary DOESNT say that Rape is NOT a domestic issue..........NEEDNT be a stranger ............... it can be wife or husband........ these rapes are far more common and unreported than what people here are talking abt...........

[Fiddler]

arre Fiddler, aaj kal kya hua re? yahan pe dikhra ich nahin...

Arre anna, kya karna mai? Itta kaam hai aaphees mein, saans lene ku time-ich nahin milra! Sirph interesting topicaan ku dakhtaoon aaj-kal.

[CtrlAltDel]

Sirph interesting topicaan ku dakhtaoon aaj-kal.

tho phir sirf woh topicaan dekh jahan pe Alexis post karti hai...sabku sirf oich topicaan interesting lagrain...

[Fiddler]

[quote="CtrlAltDeltho phir sirf woh topicaan dekh jahan pe Alexis post karti hai...sabku sirf oich topicaan interesting lagrain...[/quote]



Aisa kya? Kaiku kathe? Yeh Alexis itti intersting hai kya, aur itta interesting post karti kya? Ek example de de, tho ho sakta ki mai bhi interested ho jatoon.

[akhilis2cool]

off topic



did ne one read abt Gangez Khan?????



he has been rated the Alpha Male .....



he has arnd 15 million people carying his genes

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did ne one read abt Gangez Khan?????
he has been rated the Alpha Male .....
he has arnd 15 million people carying his genes

:shock: strong man...n he had time to wage wars too....





off topic: why's Gandhiji so thin n weak looking?









Ans: He's the father of the nation....

[Alexis]

Hey Fiddler, you dont know me and I dont know you yet. But I saw your picture. And I even know your real name. So I feel like I kinda already know you.

[asli_badmash]

Hey Fiddler, you dont know me and I dont know you yet. But I saw your picture. And I even know your real name. So I feel like I kinda already know you.

Thats like FBI saying.. We know your name, what you look like, we know where you live, what you do.. so buster... you can run but you cant hide.. we are coming to get you.



Fear ye fiddler.. your days are numbered!



~badmash~

[Alexis]

Hey Fiddler, you dont know me and I dont know you yet. But I saw your picture. And I even know your real name. So I feel like I kinda already know you.

Thats like FBI saying.. We know your name, what you look like, we know where you live, what you do.. so buster... you can run but you cant hide.. we are coming to get you.

Fear ye fiddler.. your days are numbered!

~badmash~

F.B.I huh? Well dont guys like a woman in uniform anyway?

[asli_badmash]

I agree with Jaan. The rapist enjoys the act of rape in his sick mind. Not only does he enjoy rape, he enjoys the stalking and studying his prey.



As someone said on this board... mostly rapes are crimes of passion. 95% of the time they are perpetrated by people who know you.



Counter point: Not only men rape women.. women rape men too... There have been woman sexual predators and serial killers too.



We have known the Amazonians to keep Men captive for labor and sex. Do they still exist.. can some one please sell me to the amazonians.. Or were they just a MYTH. Awww.. I would like to meet my DOMINATRIX.



~badmash~

[asli_badmash]

F.B.I huh? Well dont guys like a woman in uniform anyway?

Totally dig them... :drool: :drool:



Also, I prefer leather... I would totally fall for a Femal SS agent from WWII times.



~badmash~

[Lucifer]

F.B.I huh? Well dont guys like a woman in uniform anyway?

Totally dig them... :drool: :drool:

Also, I prefer leather... I would totally fall for a Femal SS agent from WWII times.

~badmash~

Man, are you into Femdom porn! Latex and all...

[Alexis]

Nevermind what hes into, Lucy, What are YOU into? Oooooh, do tell.

[Fiddler]

Hey Fiddler, you dont know me and I dont know you yet. But I saw your picture. And I even know your real name.

Hmmmmm.....



Since you know me and I don't know you, why don't you return the favour?

[ZC]

ok, damn it........common........i shall rape, wtf........

[CtrlAltDel]

ok, damn it........common........i shall rape,

:roll: given the strict laws in Singapore, all u can rape r yr hands...