American Born Desi...

by **ABCD** » Fri Nov 14, 2003 10:35 pm

I am a ABCD guy, C is not meant for confused folks but its charming. I moved to hyd 2 months ago just to open IT office here. I don’t see much night life here…what is the best night club/dance floor in HYD.
 
 I heard some Latino clubs also there but nobody knows where is it? Any help
 
 ABCD

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Fri Nov 14, 2003 10:47 pm

How dare you say that?
 
 We yindoos are proud of culture. In our culture we dont go out and party at nights. We dont need no night life.
 
 As Neeraja would put it, will u respect ur sister if she parties all night and comes home in the morning? So why do you want to party at night?
 
 AS you are fresh from US of A, I suggest you enroll in any RSS camp or Madarassa depending on ur faith to enlighten urself abt our Rich tradition and culture.
 
 Neeraja, did I miss any points?

by **Learner** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 12:02 am

Mayavi,
 
 Why should you take this unusually long shot a Neeraja, she has every right to have her own opinion and frankly most of us around here very much respect her balanced though conservative opinions.
 
 You are so well read and knowledgeble, frankly we expected something better than this. Cheer Up mate.

by **abcd** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 12:10 am

No offence guys , I don’t disrespect Indian culture, Well its not wrong partying in the culture I was brought up. If you think with little open mind, you will accept me.
 
 Bye the way I asked for clubs not for cultural lecture …
 
 peace ABCD

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 12:47 am

ABCD ji, take whatever you are given, it doesnt matter whether u asked for it or not.
 
 Learner:
 Take it easy yaar, it was in a lighter vein, Neeraja will understand it, me in jolly good mood today.

by **ABCD** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 12:57 am

SO ultimaltey No address for clubs

ho ho he he ....
 
 It seems when I ask for spoon of sugar for my tea, the guy gave a lecture about cons of eating sugar
 
 cheers

by ;) » Sat Nov 15, 2003 2:17 am

Hey ABCD, you showoff for where u r from and that you are an ABCD and you are proud of it and that the others around arent\' abt themselves.. and feel great abt it, u aint going nowhere,man. True respect to yourself and to the others around you will take you everywhere in our India.. so be careul before you tread those waters of India with the ABCD attitude. anyways, goodluck.

by **abcd 2** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 2:25 am

what do you mean by blabbering about indian culture??? EVERY (FOB) fresh-OFF-BOAT Indian in the US spends his weekends either in the brothels in Koti or nudebars in the US.

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 4:21 am

Banchan nee kalmokta, oggaiye dora, tappayinadi.

by **JustaLittleUnwell** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 5:18 am

ABCD, if you are looking for clubs, there are names like Jubilee Hills Club, Secunderabad Club etc. Not sure if they have dance floors, but they are supposed to be well equipped with all kinds of facilities to spend your leisure time. Might cost you some money to get enrolled as a member (in the range of US$4/5K for a life membership)
 
 If you are looking for pubs, there are options like 10 Downing St (TDS as it is popularly known), Under Deck etc. which are better known and I guess are open until 12.00 or so.
 
 And Htl Grand Kakatiya apparently has a 24 hr coffee shop. That\'s nightlife in Hyd for you. Hope this info helps.

by **ABCD** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 5:53 am

thanks a lot unwell man......finally I got the info That i want to know before 9 messages are written.
 
 Excuse my telugu..
 
 Bazaru ki dari etu babu antey okkadu endhukayya ippudu bazruki...mee inti deggera ledha ... asalu Bazaruki ki ...blah blah da daaa anadokkadu dari cheppa kumda.
 
 any how thanks fols

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 6:03 am

Hey, may be u didnt realize but ur telugu is much better than the convent educated kids of India.
 Which school did u go to? And where in US were u born/raised? answer only if u dont mind...

by **Pavan** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 11:56 am

Check ur facts abcd..ur probably in the company whichs always at the brothels....probably ur the frog in the well rather then mayavi. i have so many friends in the US who dont do that. either way i believe what mayavi said was only in sarcasm( right mayavi) and they arent his personal opinions as such.

by **Pavan** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 12:12 pm

buddy... there are a lotta pubs lined up along the begumpet road... ask for Bottles & Chimney or 10 Downing Street on the street okay? enjoy. (btw, my other post was addresing a different abcd... the one in small letters... u r of course the capital letter!!)

by **neeraja** » Sat Nov 15, 2003 12:19 pm

HI MM<<
 
 I was literally laughing through your msg, cause i too was in a wonderful mood like you dud....I am glad my name keeps coming up in the board amongst...and you guys atleast remember what i have told.... I am also glad it has gone into many thick skull... I am content... very content.... I would die laughing.............

by **abcd** » Sun Nov 16, 2003 1:37 am

hi Pavan. thanks for ur message. yes I am a different abcd, I dont even know the other one, but I had the same problems with fresh-off-boat indians many times; but you are a nice guy. hope we can be friends.

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Sun Nov 16, 2003 3:37 am

Neeraja ji, dont die so soon. We will miss ur valuable contributions.
 I really like the way u think and the way u defend ur position. I never felt that ur points are un-important are ur thought process is wrong. Sorry if I offended you, but keep \'em posts comin\'.

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Sun Nov 16, 2003 3:54 am

Small abcd ji aka chote miyaan for our reference (If my madarassa math is right, there are three abcd\'s here), why did u ass-u-me that I am a FOB? I can be from Hyderabad , secunderabad or may be I am another ABCD just like u

I am not FOB, Au contraire u are FOB cos u re fresh off boat from USA!
 
Enjoy ur stay in Hyderabad

by **Arch** » Sun Nov 16, 2003 2:56 pm

We moved to California several years since and No, we (my family, my friends and my relatives) have not developed any sort of disrespect towards our country. Infact, our being away has made us grow a lot more fond of our country, our city, our people than while we were in India/hyderabad. We kind of took it for granted and not realise the beauty of ones own motherland/roots. I guess, its more about ones culture and the family background and most importantly, ones own convictions towards oneself and his cutlure. Aye mere pyare watan, aye mere bhichide chaman tujh pe dil khurban/tu hi meri aarzo/tuhi meri abhroo tu hi meri jaan..Choomun Loon uski zubaan jispe ayya tera naam.. remember?
 My suggestion,lets ignore this guy for a while and he will come to terms and get to behave right, I hope.

by **Jekyll and Hyde\'rabadi\'** » Sun Nov 16, 2003 8:20 pm

Hey ABCD, like others have mentioned earlier, Mayavi was just being sarcastic. We\'ve been visiting these boards for long, so we know. His first message was just one of those tongue-in-cheek responses to the \"It is not in our Indian culture to go dancing/pub hopping \" rhetoric that surfaces at regular intervals on these Boards. I\'m sure it was not meant to offend you.
 

 
Coming to your question. T2 at Taj Krishna has a big dance floor when compared to the other places in the city. There\'s Spanish Fly at Asrani. Have heard of Passport at Hotel Ramada. Is said to be ok. There\'s a place called Outswinger, though I dunno where it is :-P

My friends have mentioned UnderDeck and 10 Downing Street too, but since I haven\'t been there, I can\'t give u an opinion on them.
 

 
Welcome to our city! And I hope u have a nice time here.

by **Porus** » Sun Nov 16, 2003 11:45 pm

It is amazing how a small request for info on night life ignited so much unwanted talk about cultures of ABCD\'s and Non ABCD\'s. Let us be gentle with new boarders and welcome them with open hands. Dear ABCD, be Patient, You will understand this small place fast. I will be away for 15 days to Bombay and B\'lore. When I return we shall go together to explore HYD.
 Forget MM and other annoying guys!!!

by **JustaLittleUnwell** » Mon Nov 17, 2003 1:00 am

I agree 100%. Such hostile attitudes dont earn us friends, neither do they bring in the much needed FDIs and so on. Why would a first-time poster understand \'tongue-in-cheek\' references to some past discussions? Is it because the poster stated that he is desi, that we decided to treat him lightly? I\'m not an expert on Hydbdi night life, but I posted my info above, just to show how the question could be answered without demonstrating \'attitude\'.
 

 
Btw, ABCD, seems like Jekyl n Hyde has more authentic info, and you may want to take his advise more seriously on the dance clubs / pubs etc.

by **abcd** » Mon Nov 17, 2003 5:41 am

thanks justalittleunwell and porus. you guys are really nice and friendly. hope to meet more desis like you

ciao,
 abcd

by ZC » Mon Nov 17, 2003 12:29 pm

i understand ABCD: confused or charismatic or whatever, but what is non-ABCD !!! not-confused? not-charismatic? ha ha ha, u may have meant, Indians in India, but calling Indians in India as non-ABCD\'s is funny !! ha ha ha

by **Jekyll and Hyde\'rabadi\'** » Mon Nov 17, 2003 8:01 pm

\"Her\" advice, JustaLittle. I don\'t have a rollicking social life but I just thought I\'d share the little info I had.......life\'s too short to be spent being harsh with ppl..... :-)

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