Hyd guys are the worst flirts

by **vrinda** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 12:26 am

I am here my dear couple, just that I prefer surfing the net at work, not home! Anyway, I confess, my intention was not to put Hyd guys down in any way. But I just wanted to see their breaking point if you will, and it\'s low. What I mean is, I just passed an innocent statement \"Hyd guys are the worst flirts\" and it hit the male where it hurts. It\'s not just for Hyd guys, it\'s applicable for guys all over. They have just one weak point - hit their ego and they fall crashing like a castle made of ice. I did enjoy this board - in fact, I took a print of this page! So all you young women out there who plan to get married, or fall in a relationship or say just got married. Things would sound honey and sugar initially, but then men would try to dominate on you once they have had enough sex with you. It\'s here you need to prove your worth, hit at an emotional level. Guys who have been put down and a lion with an injured leg never feel good for a long time. Did I make sense!!??? It\'s just that we women have got to break free from some crap that these men subject us to. I am not married yet, but ya, the thought of marriage does scare me.

by **vrinda** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 12:29 am

So the guys with atta-toods are the ones who would wet their pants on the word of being committed... All these showoff is a big drama, it\'s the urge to protect your ego that makes you all bark the way you did in this board!! Anyone else??

by **vrinda** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 12:40 am

\"Dirty minds of men, clean up activity, day one\" - I don\'t know if it\'s normal for a woman who\'s signed up in fullhyd netpals to get 15 messages a day, but some are very nice, thanks you guys/gals! But ya, one thing: I shall make public every nasty message you send me, so here goes the first one from a guy called Ashok. He is 23 years old, from Mehdipatnam, Hyderabad. He wrote: \"oh, good, just the kind of woman I was lookign for! Hi!, I am taller then James Bond(6\'4\"!) and I will indulge you... in return, you have to promise me great SEX... deal? Just kidding! Let me start over. I am an ex-Hydi. Love to hear from you. regards, Ashok\". Can I have you for a night man, I shall \"disable\" you.

by **Raj Vamsi** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 9:15 am

see vrinda...that\'s where you go wrong. just b\'coz ashok has mailed u in such a manner, it doesn\'t imply all are like that. some men are prurient, no doubt. i agree. but defintely some girls are even worse. they don\'t surface. it is just that u got messages from wrong persons. in this part of the world, when a girl goes about seeking friendship, she is assumed to be a flirt with additional qualities and this is the reason u inevitably attracted mails like those. he and some other persons might have considered you otherwise. but i strongly disagree with your opinion on hyd boys in general. see first of all flirting is not an issue worth making a fuss. try replying back ...

by **Jayashankar Menon** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 10:17 am

Hi Vrinda, I was going through all that Elizabethan English as well as slang. I don\'t know from where you hail, but of one thing I can assure you. My name is Jayashankar Menon, and I am a journalist living in Hyderabad for the past three years. I haven\'t come across such a wonderful city with a warm heart and such a tolerent lot, be it among men or women. Maybe, a little relaxed lot... but definitely not a perverted lot. Maybe the younger generation is not as fast as that in Delhi or Bangalore, but things are catching up too. There are a million charms that you can\'t even dream of in any part of India, as I have visited most of the cities, let me add it with brevity. If it is for fun to elicit some kind of reaction, then it is fine. But take it from me... you have not hit the male ego, as you seem to think. Have you heard of something like give back to your new destination the best you can, while enjoying the fruits of success? Wish you good luck...

by **anshuman** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 10:51 am

Hi vrinda, I am also not from Hyd and I am not sure how right you are in saying that Hyd guys are not good at flirting. Whatever, I appreciate your endeavour in taking on so many guys on this board and giving them a tough time! There are certain people who use the Net to talk nonsense, but please don\'t generalize for everybody. Best of luck... And by the way, what type of job are you doing? Good going! Bye...

by **Raj Vamsi** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 11:58 am

vrinda... ur generalization of all men is really sick. ur response to la is even worse. at 22, why r u talking philosophy? by the way u haven\'t replied to me yet.

by **Arnie NotShwarznegar** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 12:34 pm

Firstly – an amazing start, Vrinda – I am new to this city and the website, but I have rarely seen anyone manage to grab so much attention on entering a community before. Speaks a lot for all you hyd guys too – keep up the enthu.
Vrinda, a clarification needed – Were you cribbing about “flirting” per se, or more about how bad some poor colleague of yours is at it?.. C’mon, spare the guy – all he wanted to do was “let’s eat together” - and that’s what he did :-)

. Methinks you were disappointed that he did not flirt as much as you really expected, based on your interactions with guys in other cities, maybe?
ps. luvd thy comments, psd

by **RAMS** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 2:19 pm

Woman - the Woe of Man 
Dear Ms. Vrinda, Your attention seeking tactics are so marvelleous - if even I could not resist my temptation at a counter dig. 

By the way, if a man takes you out for dinner and is not bothered about eating, guess what is on his mind! 

All I can say in what I learned from your post is to start a Flirting Course For Men... I may become a millionire... now that is a better thought than wanting to figure out whether or not Hyd men are good flirts or not! 

So here is to that...

by la » Mon Mar 03, 2003 2:29 pm

From flirting to marriage, you have indeed come a long way Vrinda! Of course, every relationship has its ups and downs and marriage is definitely a lot of give and take... in fact, more of the former than the latter. But once again, this applies to both the sexes. It\'s no longer the way our grandmothers or even mothers lived... in the present age both husband and wife are equals, and fortunately, men these days are very comfortable with this fact. If you think marriage is all about male domination, \'hitting back emotionally\', \'breaking free\' and satisfying a man\'s lust, you are way off track. If you do decide to step out of your ivory tower, well and good, but otherwise you will be missing out on a lot. I think you just need to do some more \'growing up\' and of course find Mr.Right!! But till then, enjoy life girl... if somebody flirts, either take it sportively or ignore it... What\'s the big deal??

by **Raj Vamsi** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 2:40 pm

well said la

by **Shiva** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 2:43 pm

Hi Vrinda, well do u think girls like u deserve to be complimented?! If some guy is looking at u, that\'s b\'cos u look good. Take that as a compliment. Then why is that u girls crave for attention?

by **nagender** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 5:15 pm

hey vrinda, first of all not all people are alike but i am just the kind of guy u described and probably many would be like me here in hyd... why? STARVED OF GIRLS. u know people here are a very conservative and orthodox lot - they are kept on a strict girl diet, and u want more of what u don\'t get, right? that is why u felt like that by their looks and acts... don\'t think otherwise. have a nice time in hyd, bye...

by **nagender** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 5:20 pm

hi ash, it seems somebody did a bad one to u... not all are alike ma\'am. have a nice time ahead...

by **nagender** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 5:31 pm

Why do gals always fall for the wrong women who abuse them and have malicious intentions on them?

by **PKN** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 5:37 pm

Shez talking of bad things abt men and marriage, and talking of dating. Is she a misanthrope ? Lady, if u don\'t like men and marriage and like only dating, people can assume anything. Is ur company paying u to do this from office?

by RP » Mon Mar 03, 2003 8:02 pm

This is really getting out of hands. MODERATOR - WHERE ARE YOU? You need to stop this now. Just because you get some good ratings out of this board does not mean that you continue this smear campaign of one individual. Just so that you know, if you do not act and kill this board soon, you can expect people to turn off fullhyd and tune in to another channel. I will be the first to do this. Vrinda - in all fairness to yourself and others, do you believe that all the stuff you are talking makes sense? Please be introspective. You called men, especially hyderabadis, every word you can think of. You implicitly suggested they \'love\' only for sex, you called them egoistic, and you labeled them \'worst flirts\'. Why are you so angry with men in general and all things overall. You seem to also enjoy this drama. Trust me, these things will become issues in your marriage. You may say you are rethinking about marriage but when you find Mr. Right, you will fall for him. And then the issues begin. Marriage, men, and women are all about getting adjusted to issues each day, compromising yet not loosing individuality, loving yet being critical, being sacrificial yet ambitious, egoistic yet dignified. Every man lives on ego just as a women love their own. Please be patient and stop taking worse positions one after another. I think you are compromising fullhyd\'s commitment for a confidential exchange on NetPals ( I guess the moderator has not woken up to this fact yet). Just for the record, I did not send the mail but am voicing frustration at your exhibition of uncontrollable passions. Relax, you seem to be good and please do not loose your reputation at work because your own colleagues may be reading these notes.

by **popesmokesdope** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 8:45 pm

\'Tis how you perceive things on the outside. Thou shalt not insult the clan varlet... otherwise be ready for thou shalt face the wrath of a million gods. Vrinda you varlet... You shall face the might of the clan... My braves are just waiting for you to sneak outta that little hole from which you speaketh these words... Thou shall return to thy abode sans thy fingers... Thy toes... And thy dignity... So is the decree of King Arthur... So it shall be...

by **popesmokesdope** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 8:51 pm

Arise Jayshankar... High priest... Weilder of the enchanted pen... Welcome to our fold... Thou shall eradicate hordes of varlets by using thy enchanted pen to scribble and scramble their minds... Considering the varlets and their cowardly leader... Thou shall have a ball... hail King Arthur!

by **popesmokesdope** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 8:56 pm

Aha Arnie.... \'Tis a great honour to see you hale and hearty... Come sire... Thy seat has been brought back from the cleaners... And been fitted with the control panel that gives thee access to several channels including some with dancing women wearing birthday suits... let\'s celebrate the dawn of a new day...

by **popesmokesdope** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 9:02 pm

High priestess La... How fareth ye? As they said in the ancient scriptures \"please bear with me for a few more days\"... Meanwhile have fun sistah ;-)

by **popesmokesdope** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 9:14 pm

Welcome noble knight... Tis time to fortify the clan... Group... And enjoy the company of the valiant ones... Arise oh valiant paladin \"rp\"... For thou hath the valour to slay the mightiest of dragons... thou hath the courage and the skills to shine through... come oh valiant paladin... For there is much work to do... Rally thy troops... For when we go into battle... Thou shall lead the attack from the east...

by **popesmokesdope** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 9:17 pm

As the rest of the place fought... The clan resteth... After a long hard day... \’tis time to go soak in the pool of Eros... And sip on this brew.... While the priestesses play hopskotch and that funny game where they sit and clap alternate hands and sing silly songs... Will come back for more mirth and battle... Till the pope returneth... Hang on to thy suspenders...

by La » Mon Mar 03, 2003 9:34 pm

CRAP man... this is exactly what I think. I mean, look, here\'s this new female from out of town. A new techie in a city already brimming with software pundits. She\'s probably living alone and bored and just shuttling between work and a hostel or home. She puts up her two cents and we are near to scoring a century with the number of responses she has evoked... of course I\'ve probably made a sixer too here.
DONT YOU THINK WE\'VE GIVEN THIS NEWCOMER ENUFF BHAAV ALREADY? I\'m 100% sure she\'s having a ball refreshing this one single page everyday. What she says or thinks won\'t make a dent on Hyderabad or its denizens. She\'s probably smirking after stirring a hornet\'s nest. We\'ve started with a \'let\'s eat\' to \'sex\'!! Put yourself in her shoes. Wouldn\'t you be excited seeing the number of responses to your discusion shoot up? It\'s time we all boycotted this stupid issue.

by **\"BM\"** » Mon Mar 03, 2003 11:07 pm

La: 100% agreed with your comments, it looks like someone is trying to move this board as fast as they can. We should stop posting messages on this board.

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