Will the elders understand the feeling of young lovers?

[M.Rama krishna]

A: Some are understanding the feelings of the young lovers but some are not. I lost a good friend who\'s name is tirupathi we are friends from our graduation level onwards. He loved a girl, he was hindu and she was christian. He was first in studies,play in word he is the allrounder. But, due his bad fate his parents doesn\'t understood his love and they interrupted both the lovers. My friend wanted to marry her with the permission of his parents,but their parents refused their sincere love. I left my friend after completion of our graduation due the transfer of my father. One day when I met a friend he informed me a sad news that our friend tirupathi made suicide with that girl by drinking some harmful pesticide. At that movement I hurt a lot. If at all their parents have agreed their love, There disagreement gave that much of pain to them and all of us, my suggestion to elders you are looking after your children since their birth, then why don\'t you understand their feelings and help them in their life as they wish. Please, try to understand me, Don\'t try to spoil your children\'s precious lifes. Thanking all of them who are reading this message.

[Kulcha Hyderabadi]

Thanks MRK for your kind advice. We feel sorry for your friend and his gal. May God have mercy on them. But there are some things in life that you simply cannot change. Marriages across religious and caste lines are still frowned upon in the society. You sound really sad, may God give you patience. You must learn to demonstrate a strong sense of fortitude in times of adversity.

[jeevan]

MRK , i really do not want to talk anything against that boy and girl. but then inspite of being an allrounder he failed in life. all he needed is some guts and be prepared to face some obstacles. they cud have taken help of freinds , some other elders and cud have got married (assuming that both r majors), he has barins , he cud surely have earned for a living pretty easily , right? inspite of facing the world together they escaped it by committing suicide.people can do something only if they are alive , what thehell can they do if they decide to die , we all hve to die at one point of time or other.

[ravi]

i feel that most of the times elders are understanding , but if they try to stick to their own theories and try to force them upon their children , then it will be the youngsters turn to teach them that its not the way in a softly manner.i feel that except suicide if they had done anything else , may be they cud have succeeded in having a better life.

[tarun]

that was a good message buddy. but our elders are too busy trying to gain properties, promotions , thinking more ways to gain bribe, backbiting , and more imp\'tly trying to force the kids to fullfill their unfulfilled dreams.Dot u hear this sentence often from ur parents \"i cudnt do xyz in my life, so i want u to do this and make me a happy person and be proud of u\"

[M. Rama krishna]

Tarun,Jeevan,Ravi and Kulcha hyderabadi. I thank all of you for replying for my message. I read all of your opinions they are nice thank you friends bye...