Angel, I request we do not limit the idea of patritism to
http://www.dictionary.com's definition. I don't consider Dictionary.com has the final say on patriotism, though it did have a first say in this thread and provides a good starting point. The term "country" is ill defined and ill suited in this modern world where political boundaries have changed so much in such a short span of time while cross-national cultural, religious and historical affinities survive.
Angle wrote:my country
my religion
my caste
my family
me
To add two more to the "my" list:
my ideas
my sense of righteousness.
Angle wrote:can we please atleast try to think a little less selfishly?
I have always found it hard to believe that one can be truly unselfish. Even the simplest unselfish act is performed to satisfy the selfish desire to do something good. The mere act of survival demands that every living being be selfish to some extent. I do disagree with gluttonish selfishness, but have no problem with loyalty to what one considers as one's own. One could identify his/her own in many ways: abstract ideas, morals, cross cultures, political boundaries, natural boundaries or anything; be what ever, one has to have some sense of loyalty towards what one considers one's own. This I think is patriotism.
For example you appear to be patriotic to the idea of unselfish thought. Your patriotism is not bound to political boundaries, cultures, castes, religions etc. But still it is patriotism to what you consider to be right.
So patriotism by itself is not wrong. It takes a nasty form only when its boundaries are ill defined and is ill displayed.
Looking selfishness from a different point of view, if we assume
1) everyone is selfish
2) every one thinks logically
3) the best for each is when there is a reasonable stability for all.
Then don't you think (1) and (2) will result in (3), which I think is what you are seeking as an end result of global unselfishness?
I am convinced to an extent (1) is true, and (3) is true as seen from history and human desire. I think the problem lies in assumption (2), not because humans lack logic but because humans by nature are paranoid and the lack of trust causes them to betray (3).
I think selfishness is a highly underrated yet abused attribute whereas unselfishness is an overrated term.
Angle wrote:why is our thinking so selfcentered? how can u say its okay to be patriotic(meaning according to dictionary.com) ?
why should u be patriotic? why should u not have the same love for other countries? why should u love your country more? and more?
As far as patriotism to a "country" is concerned:
I do not see anything wrong in saying "I will defend my country". My country might be ill defined in my mind, or may be defined by some brit before I was born, but it still gives me a vague concept to identify myself with.
It is like one's family, you have no choice what family you are born in, but still you will defend it to the extent possible. If you realise your family is at wrong you might try to correct them. But if your family and a neighbor's family are in peril or are fighiting each other and you need to pick one, then probability, logic, psychology, sociology, anthropology and evry other logies say you will save your own family first. Patriotism to one's country is analogous to this, it need not translate into my way or no way or hatred to others' countries.
Angle wrote:
i say its the same as having more love for the people of your own religion.or caste.
the phenomenon is same. u segregate people on some basis and have more love for a certain group. its all the same. do u disagree?
I agree that it translates into more love for a certain group. But it need not segragate people into groups and need not display disdain toward those you do not love as much.
Angle wrote:
yes we love our family and parents more than others. we dont even cry when we read abt other families which die in a quake or flood.
we, the human race, is selfish by birth and nature. we are supposed to have survived bcos of that. we already live on other animals and plants by killing them. we are very indifferent to other living species of the world.
we are a selfish lot.
we like ourselves first, our family, our parents.
* i request u not to be proud of this nature of ours.
There is no reason to be proud of this nature, but I don't see the need to feel sorry either.
Angle wrote:then u might realise that being proud of loving one's own country or religion or race or watever is nothing but wrong thinking which will not bring about a better world.
God is a comedian playing to an audience too afraid to laugh. Voltaire, philosopher (1694-1778)