Is this only a Dream!!!!!

[Friend from Hyd]

Hi all.

I am new to this discussion room. But after seeing the previous discussions I am posting this thread.

Is finding a virgin Spouse (Wife / Husband) is only a dream for guys like me??? Do you have any openion?

[lizard king]

Hi all.
I am new to this discussion room. But after seeing the previous discussions I am posting this thread.
Is finding a virgin Spouse (Wife / Husband) is only a dream for guys like me??? Do you have any openion?

first of all, u ll have to decide, wether u want a husband or a wife for urself, then we can talk about the virginity issue.

And by the way, did nt really get to ask this question on the boards before, why do u want a virgin wife/husband? whats wrong with non virgins?

[CtrlAltDel]

...why do u want a virgin wife/husband? whats wrong with non virgins?

good questions Lizard!

[Sharjeel]

...why do u want a virgin wife/husband? whats wrong with non virgins?

good questions Lizard!

And Why would not anyone want a virgin? If you do not have a choice, then it i really immaterial, but who would choose a non-virgin over a virgin?

[CtrlAltDel]

...why do u want a virgin wife/husband? whats wrong with non virgins?

good questions Lizard!

And Why would not anyone want a virgin? If you do not have a choice, then it i really immaterial, but who would choose a non-virgin over a virgin?

same question again: whats so special about a virgin? try giving a convincing answer to that and u may answer yr question yourself?

[lizard king]

...why do u want a virgin wife/husband? whats wrong with non virgins?

good questions Lizard!

And Why would not anyone want a virgin? If you do not have a choice, then it i really immaterial, but who would choose a non-virgin over a virgin?

dude, no matter what, she ll never remain a virgin after rhe first time , and personally, i would nt be too fussy about the first time, anyway, its not as as good as the ones that follow later, thru the years. and i doubt even if it would be remembered down the memory lane.

[Sharjeel]

...why do u want a virgin wife/husband? whats wrong with non virgins?

good questions Lizard!

And Why would not anyone want a virgin? If you do not have a choice, then it i really immaterial, but who would choose a non-virgin over a virgin?

dude, no matter what, she ll never remain a virgin after rhe first time , and personally, i would nt be too fussy about the first time, anyway, its not as as good as the ones that follow later, thru the years. and i doubt even if it would be remembered down the memory lane.

Beig fussy is a different matter.



The more important question is: Why would you choose a girl/guy who has already preferred someone over you?



And if s/he is into causal sex, then it gives me even more reason not to marry her. The body is the ultimate prize, and is someone is dumb enough to give it to eveyone, then he is not much of a person.



You would not willingly marry a prostitute, would you?

[Mayavi Morpheus]

Hi all.
I am new to this discussion room. But after seeing the previous discussions I am posting this thread.
Is finding a virgin Spouse (Wife / Husband) is only a dream for guys like me??? Do you have any openion?

baaaaaaaaaah... dude we are billion strong, ek nahi, koi aur sahi.

This is India, not America. If you can find virgins in US, then rest assured that you can find them in India too.





Off-Topic:



What made you post your first post on FH three years after registering



Off-off topic:



Is this week some National Virginity week or something

[archii]

like the conflict btw whites and blacks

like the hatred btw india and pakistan

now there is another one btw virgins and non virgins

[Sharjeel]

now there is another one btw virgins and non virgins

If you were asked to choose between two people who were equally good, but one was a virgin... which one would you go for?



If (hypo-whateverically) you chose the non-virgin, I would suggest that you should enroll in a mental instituion.

[Mayavi Morpheus]

The more important question is: Why would you choose a girl/guy who has already preferred someone over you?

I dont get this logic sharjeel bhai. The girl may not have met you before date/marriage, so the question of chosing someone else over you does not arise.

The body is the ultimate prize, and is someone is dumb enough to give it to eveyone, then he is not much of a person.

Body is nothing but a drape for the soul. No? (thats deep ).

The person remains the same. Sex or no sex.

[lizard king]

...why do u want a virgin wife/husband? whats wrong with non virgins?

good questions Lizard!

And Why would not anyone want a virgin? If you do not have a choice, then it i really immaterial, but who would choose a non-virgin over a virgin?

dude, no matter what, she ll never remain a virgin after rhe first time , and personally, i would nt be too fussy about the first time, anyway, its not as as good as the ones that follow later, thru the years. and i doubt even if it would be remembered down the memory lane.

Beig fussy is a different matter.

The more important question is: Why would you choose a girl/guy who has already preferred someone over you?

And if s/he is into causal sex, then it gives me even more reason not to marry her. The body is the ultimate prize, and is someone is dumb enough to give it to eveyone, then he is not much of a person.

You would not willingly marry a prostitute, would you?

sherry, preferences change with time, what u have today, u may not have it tomorrow. how would u not know that the girl must have really loved the guy and the guy dumped her after that?

and about marrying prostitutes... i d wish not to comment, cos even i have mixed feelings about it, will get back to it once my thoughts are clear. but it would definitely be wrong if u called some one who who has had an intimate relationship with some one before marriage as a prostitute.

[Sharjeel]

...why do u want a virgin wife/husband? whats wrong with non virgins?

good questions Lizard!

And Why would not anyone want a virgin? If you do not have a choice, then it i really immaterial, but who would choose a non-virgin over a virgin?

dude, no matter what, she ll never remain a virgin after rhe first time , and personally, i would nt be too fussy about the first time, anyway, its not as as good as the ones that follow later, thru the years. and i doubt even if it would be remembered down the memory lane.

Beig fussy is a different matter.

The more important question is: Why would you choose a girl/guy who has already preferred someone over you?

And if s/he is into causal sex, then it gives me even more reason not to marry her. The body is the ultimate prize, and is someone is dumb enough to give it to eveyone, then he is not much of a person.

You would not willingly marry a prostitute, would you?

sherry, preferences change with time, what u have today, u may not have it tomorrow. how would u not know that the girl must have really loved the guy and the guy dumped her after that?
and about marrying prostitutes... i d wish not to comment, cos even i have mixed feelings about it, will get back to it once my thoughts are clear. but it would definitely be wrong if u called some one who who has had an intimate relationship with some one before marriage as a prostitute.

I accept your argument. Whe you love someone, it is really not an issue whether s/he is a virgin, etc. You also are right when you say that a person who has an intimate relationship with someone is not a prostitute. It is not really a matter of choice then...



But you see, these kind of people do not want to ask opinions, they just want someone to tell them that it is not a big deal if they slept with every second free guy/girl you find.

[mark]

like the conflict btw whites and blacks
like the hatred btw india and pakistan
now there is another one btw virgins and non virgins

not quite following you old chap.



on topic, some people like new cars (and that new car smell), others prefer classic cars that have a good few miles on the clock and a proven track record.



for me, i wouldn't marry a virgin cos anyone of marriable age who's still a virgin probably isn't a very interesting/adventurous person.







Sherry, you said the body is the ultimate prize, i would totally disagree. the mind is the ultimate prize. if a woman has had womanly experience before that only adds value for me.



if your wife was a virgin, she's always going to wonder "maybe its better with someone else". if she is a woman of the world, then she'll appreciate your technique more, having something to compare it to.

[Mayavi Morpheus]

Dont be so cocksure marko. 'Compare' and 'appreciate' are the key words here.

advantages can be disadvantges.

[Sharjeel]

Sherry, you said the body is the ultimate prize, i would totally disagree. the mind is the ultimate prize.

Agreed. But my post was concerned with the physical aspect of the relationship.

if your wife was a virgin, she's always going to wonder "maybe its better with someone else". if she is a woman of the world, then she'll appreciate your technique more, having something to compare it to.

[mark]

ok agreed a comparison might not be a great thing, but if you suck in bed (in a metaphorical sense) but she loves you then alls well. if you can hold your own between the sheets (i'm on a roll ) then its all good too.



bottom line, unless she's slept with 20-30 guys, she won't be able to apraise the situation and she'll always wonder what it'd be like with others.

[Sharjeel]

ok agreed a comparison might not be a great thing, but if you suck in bed (in a metaphorical sense) but she loves you then alls well. if you can hold your own between the sheets (i'm on a roll ) then its all good too.

bottom line, unless she's slept with 20-30 guys, she won't be able to apraise the situation and she'll always wonder what it'd be like with others.

Right!



Even then, this is prolly one of the major reasons of divorce (the inability of a person betn the sheets).

[lizard king]

ok agreed a comparison might not be a great thing, but if you suck in bed (in a metaphorical sense) but she loves you then alls well. if you can hold your own between the sheets (i'm on a roll ) then its all good too.

bottom line, unless she's slept with 20-30 guys, she won't be able to apraise the situation and she'll always wonder what it'd be like with others.

if some one did nt, they dont know what they are missing out on, in a way, but there are other consequences too, i guess it all depends on how ready u are to accept it, or how ready u are , to ignore it . or how self confident u are. or how manipulative the chick is. or rather how _ up the whole situation is, or even worse... how drunk u are when u type this.

[mark]

ok agreed a comparison might not be a great thing, but if you suck in bed (in a metaphorical sense) but she loves you then alls well. if you can hold your own between the sheets (i'm on a roll ) then its all good too.

bottom line, unless she's slept with 20-30 guys, she won't be able to apraise the situation and she'll always wonder what it'd be like with others.

if some one did nt, they dont know what they are missing out on, in a way, but there are other consequences too, i guess it all depends on how ready u are to accept it, or how ready u are , to ignore it . or how self confident u are. or how manipulative the chick is. or rather how _ up the whole situation is, or even worse... how drunk u are when u type this.

what you're saying is, it's all relative. your milage may vary. don't have your daughter deflowered just yet, the jury is still out. whats good for the goose, may not neccessaraly be good for the other goose. sometimes the grass is greener on the other side but sometimes there is no grass at all, just a kind of patio area with a little picnic table and barbique. cool beer from the fridge, what a great way to spend a sunday afternoon.

[Kavita]

sherry, preferences change with time, what u have today, u may not have it tomorrow. how would u not know that the girl must have really loved the guy and the guy dumped her after that?
and about marrying prostitutes... i d wish not to comment, cos even i have mixed feelings about it, will get back to it once my thoughts are clear. but it would definitely be wrong if u called some one who who has had an intimate relationship with some one before marriage as a prostitute.

I want to know the difference between a prostitute and non-virgin apart from monetory aspect. Can any body post on this too?



My current opinion is, there isnt much difference. A non-prostitue non-virgin is a result of unwisely decissions.



I hope I get a better understanding of both kinds of people and update my opinion on them.

[mark]

My current opinion is, there isnt much difference. A non-prostitue non-virgin is a result of unwisely decissions.

explain? this is pretty meaningless to me.

[ycr007]

My current opinion is, there isnt much difference. A non-prostitue non-virgin is a result of unwisely decissions.

explain? this is pretty meaningless to me.

I think She means a Virgin who is NOT a prostitute and is STILL a virgin

is not taking wise decisions....



Rite?

[CtrlAltDel]

I want to know the difference between a prostitute and non-virgin apart from monetory aspect. Can any body post on this too?

My current opinion is, there isnt much difference.

:? wtf?

a prostitute uses sex to earn money...

a "non-virgin" is any person who has had sex....

cant u see any difference between the two?

or are u calling girls who have pre-marital sex, prostitutes? thats unfair and uncalled for.

A non-prostitue non-virgin is a result of unwisely decissions.

what do u mean by that?



cummon yaaron...sex is as natural an act like eating, drinking and crapping...god knows why it has become such a big deal....



and virginity in girls is just a tiny piece of flimsy tissue that can disappear even without having sex....making that piece of tissue a big criteriea to judge a woman is not only stupid but immoral and sick

[Ekta]

and virginity in girls is just a tiny piece of flimsy tissue that can disappear even without having sex....

I must disagree w/D above statement, u mean to say a girl's hymen can be broke without even havin sex at all? it may b caused by sports activity or too much dancing or whatever.,it is only in the outer body part Mr. CtrlAltDel. so even tho she broke her hymen, she is still consider virgin cuz no penetration done, no sex done, and so she is still pure.