the one u love or the one who loves u?

[bumpishee]

hi to all the people around here





i came to drop by here and i want to know other's view points in "loving" or in choosing the right person to spend the rest of your life with





would u choose the person who loves u but u don't love? the only good thing is that u will be financially and emotionally secured if u choose this one, why?





or the person u sincerely love but does not love u? in a sense that u know already that if u go for this one, u will be tha happiest person ever alive in this whole world but the price u pay is that u know u can never make this person happy because his/heart never belongs to u, why?





feel free to give me your views most especially to the married ones here, as it contribute a big help for me.

[Sharjeel]

Hello there!



Extremely tough question. I really cannot make up my mind.



Anybody's love/need for another person is not a static thing, it depends upon a lot of factors and keeps on changing, (which is why some love marraiges also end in divorce.).



The person who loves you may chage his/her interest, Or, the person you love may not look sooo interesting later. You cannot simply go by your 'current feeling' alone, you have to look at the future too.



Which is why, it is prolly beter if you stick to the one whom (you think) you love. At least you will not have anyone to blame...

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[enriquee]

go for both . atleast one will click