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Do You Follow Your Heart or Your Head?

by Ar!e$ » Mon Jan 10, 2005 11:25 pm

Ever feel that tension between your heart saying, "Yes," and your head saying, "No?" Well how do you make the decision? Do you follow your heart or your head when making the big decisions in life? 8)
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by salamehyderabad » Mon Jan 10, 2005 11:29 pm

I think this is tough question to answer. For me it all depends upon the situation I am in. Sometime the judgement mite be a wrong one.

I know its not an answer, but ....
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by CtrlAltDel » Tue Jan 11, 2005 12:03 am

i usually follow my head....:roll:....dunno if its always good
wtf? i no longer care if my posts hurt yr feelings :roll:
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haha

by Ar!e$ » Tue Jan 11, 2005 12:09 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:i usually follow my head....:roll:....dunno if its always good




how good is it?? :wink:
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by Ar!e$ » Tue Jan 11, 2005 12:09 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:i usually follow my head....:roll:....dunno if its always good




how good is it?? :wink:
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Re: haha

by CtrlAltDel » Tue Jan 11, 2005 12:11 am

Ar!e$ wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:i usually follow my head....:roll:....dunno if its always good
how good is it?? :wink:
:lol: patha nahin...different ppl give a different opinion abt my head!
wtf? i no longer care if my posts hurt yr feelings :roll:
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by The Scorpion's Sting » Tue Jan 11, 2005 12:48 am

I believe there is no "Voice Of The Heart", if you are talking about intuition that is a different story all together. However, I trust my head sometimes and sometimes my intuition but in finality I'm always wrong :| :?
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by mark » Tue Jan 11, 2005 1:03 am

the voices in my mind are what i would say are my "head", the things i intuitively know are from my heart (subconsiousness might be a better word, rather than the thing that pumps blood around my body)



i go with my heart every time. if ya have to think too hard about something, then you're probably going to make the wrong decision.
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by Jaan » Tue Jan 11, 2005 2:14 am

Anything school, professional/work etc is head related

everything else is heart related...Trust your instinct!



But I don't know how well each works out each time...



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by Habitual Perfectionist » Tue Jan 11, 2005 2:33 am

Jaan wrote:Anything school, professional/work etc is head related
everything else is heart related...Trust your instinct!

But I don't know how well each works out each time...

Jaan




I feel that's a good way to start off once you are on your own. I started off the same way when I was in a boarding school....living all by myself. But over the years, this process of following the head in professional matters and the heart in others has evolved into a much more stronger treasure of experiences.



I evaluate most of my actions - atleast those actions which would have an impact on me; others around me and the rest of the world. Based on this evaluation and aided by my conscience, I grade that action as right or wrong. When faced with similar situations later in life, I just refer back to this knowledgebase of rights and wrongs. I listen to both my head and heart and finally do whatever seems best in the given situation.
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by akhilis2cool » Tue Jan 11, 2005 9:38 am

I am a harsh critic when it comes to judjing my decisions. I experiment a lot. I try and imagine all sorts of situations that wld b created b'coz of my decisions. but the final decision usually comes from no where.
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by 3 T'z » Tue Jan 11, 2005 7:41 pm

i think 222 much n i mostly ...umm...almost alwayz follow ma head...( if itz workin ) :)
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by ~akidna~ » Tue Jan 11, 2005 11:17 pm

i rely on my "GUTS"

:D :D :D



head or heart ..eh....well i usually follow the one which is stronger at the time...

but ...usually i depend more on my instinct...or that "GUT" :D feeling
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by Habitual Perfectionist » Tue Jan 11, 2005 11:40 pm

~akidna~ wrote:i rely on my "GUTS"
:D :D :D

head or heart ..eh....well i usually follow the one which is stronger at the time...
but ...usually i depend more on my instinct...or that "GUT" :D feeling




You mean dil, jigar, gurde se zyada tum apne gale pe bharosa rakhti ho?
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by ~akidna~ » Wed Jan 12, 2005 12:09 am

Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:i rely on my "GUTS"
:D :D :D

head or heart ..eh....well i usually follow the one which is stronger at the time...
but ...usually i depend more on my instinct...or that "GUT" :D feeling


You mean dil, jigar, gurde se zyada tum apne gale pe bharosa rakhti ho?




gale...u mean neck





i said gut feeling...as in the feeling u get in ya tummy...
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hmmmm.

by Reality,,its here.Accept it. » Wed Jan 12, 2005 12:20 am

~akidna~ wrote:
Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:i rely on my "GUTS"
:D :D :D

head or heart ..eh....well i usually follow the one which is stronger at the time...
but ...usually i depend more on my instinct...or that "GUT" :D feeling


You mean dil, jigar, gurde se zyada tum apne gale pe bharosa rakhti ho?


gale...u mean neck


i said gut feeling...as in the feeling u get in ya tummy...




i just feel hunger pangs in my stomach,, it can not think even though it has a nervous network of its own.:).
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Re: hmmmm.

by ~akidna~ » Wed Jan 12, 2005 12:37 am

Reality,,its here.Accept it. wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:
Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:i rely on my "GUTS"
:D :D :D

head or heart ..eh....well i usually follow the one which is stronger at the time...
but ...usually i depend more on my instinct...or that "GUT" :D feeling


You mean dil, jigar, gurde se zyada tum apne gale pe bharosa rakhti ho?


gale...u mean neck


i said gut feeling...as in the feeling u get in ya tummy...


i just feel hunger pangs in my stomach,, it can not think even though it has a nervous network of its own.:).




well...gut feelins what saved us since beginning of time...its how our ancestors survived...always trust it....ur tummy has other functions other than...digestin ya food...lol
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Re: hmmmm.

by Reality,,its here.Accept it. » Wed Jan 12, 2005 12:42 am

~akidna~ wrote:
Reality,,its here.Accept it. wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:
Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:i rely on my "GUTS"
:D :D :D

head or heart ..eh....well i usually follow the one which is stronger at the time...
but ...usually i depend more on my instinct...or that "GUT" :D feeling


You mean dil, jigar, gurde se zyada tum apne gale pe bharosa rakhti ho?


gale...u mean neck


i said gut feeling...as in the feeling u get in ya tummy...


i just feel hunger pangs in my stomach,, it can not think even though it has a nervous network of its own.:).


well...gut feelins what saved us since beginning of time...its how our ancestors survived...always trust it....ur tummy has other functions other than...digestin ya food...lol




My tummy is a lazy boy , and i keep it rather busy with the one function it does.
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Re: hmmmm.

by Ar!e$ » Wed Jan 12, 2005 3:56 am

Reality,,its here.Accept it. wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:
Reality,,its here.Accept it. wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:
Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:i rely on my "GUTS"
:D :D :D

head or heart ..eh....well i usually follow the one which is stronger at the time...
but ...usually i depend more on my instinct...or that "GUT" :D feeling


You mean dil, jigar, gurde se zyada tum apne gale pe bharosa rakhti ho?


gale...u mean neck


i said gut feeling...as in the feeling u get in ya tummy...


i just feel hunger pangs in my stomach,, it can not think even though it has a nervous network of its own.:).


well...gut feelins what saved us since beginning of time...its how our ancestors survived...always trust it....ur tummy has other functions other than...digestin ya food...lol


My tummy is a lazy boy , and i keep it rather busy with the one function it does.




:shock: u think wid ur TUMMY?? the q was abt HEART N HEAD..NT ur Tummy.. :lol:
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Re: hmmmm.

by CtrlAltDel » Wed Jan 12, 2005 10:33 am

Ar!e$ wrote:
Reality,,its here.Accept it. wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:
Reality,,its here.Accept it. wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:
Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
~akidna~ wrote:i rely on my "GUTS"
:D :D :D

head or heart ..eh....well i usually follow the one which is stronger at the time...
but ...usually i depend more on my instinct...or that "GUT" :D feeling
You mean dil, jigar, gurde se zyada tum apne gale pe bharosa rakhti ho?
gale...u mean neck
i said gut feeling...as in the feeling u get in ya tummy...
i just feel hunger pangs in my stomach,, it can not think even though it has a nervous network of its own.:).
well...gut feelins what saved us since beginning of time...its how our ancestors survived...always trust it....ur tummy has other functions other than...digestin ya food...lol
My tummy is a lazy boy , and i keep it rather busy with the one function it does.
:shock: u think wid ur TUMMY?? the q was abt HEART N HEAD..NT ur Tummy.. :lol:
"think with the TUMMY"...thats a new one! :)



i have heard abt men thinking with things other than brain...but a tummy...:?
wtf? i no longer care if my posts hurt yr feelings :roll:
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by Truffles » Wed Jan 12, 2005 12:27 pm

Follow your heart and you have to cross the ocean of disillusionment..and maybe you'd find hope on the other side

Follow your head, and you have to cross the ocean of morality and when you get beyond, everything appears justified.
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by akhilis2cool » Wed Jan 12, 2005 12:29 pm

Truffles wrote:Follow your heart and you have to cross the ocean of disillusionment..and maybe you'd find hope on the other side
Follow your head, and you have to cross the ocean of morality and when you get beyond, everything appears justified.
so what do u follow?
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by black wizard » Wed Jan 12, 2005 12:30 pm

A frnd of mine told me once, "Always think with ur head. Its ok if you think with your heart...but never...NEVER think with your _!!!"



True...very true :lol:
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by lizard king » Wed Jan 12, 2005 12:39 pm

black wizard wrote:A frnd of mine told me once, "Always think with ur head. Its ok if you think with your heart...but never...NEVER think with your _!!!"

True...very true :lol:


head and the _ are two thinking organs of the male body, when one functions, its impossible for the other to function., they kind of take turns u know, when one rests, the other one gets active and vice versa.
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by truffles » Wed Jan 12, 2005 7:41 pm

akhilis2cool wrote:
Truffles wrote:Follow your heart and you have to cross the ocean of disillusionment..and maybe you'd find hope on the other side
Follow your head, and you have to cross the ocean of morality and when you get beyond, everything appears justified.
so what do u follow?




I follow my heart. Thanks for asking.
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