Looking for Good friends (only friends)

[VJ]

Hello All!



Iam looking for good friends in hyd. Myself Male and aged 28, Iam displaying my age and sex just to avoid any misinterpretation. Looking for true friends who can help me out in every matter. Don't mind of either sex and age. Iam looking for just friends. If there are any sources for making friends like websites or any, please let me know.



@VJ

[VJ]

This Hyd totally SUCKS! The people are not open minded and I get a feeling as if there are a lot of restrictions in everything. Other than the food it has nothing like cosmopolitan culture. Iam sorry! But this is my experience! others might have a differnet experience. Iam looking myself to shift to another city which truly has everything in it. If anyone interested in making friends get back to me on this thread.



@VJ

[CtrlAltDel]

[gyanster]

:|

yeah what was that supposed to mean?

[Amused HP]

:|

yeah what was that supposed to mean?

That just meant sour grapes

[CtrlAltDel]

[Bimbette]

This Hyd totally SUCKS! The people are not open minded and I get a feeling as if there are a lot of restrictions in everything. Other than the food it has nothing like cosmopolitan culture. Iam sorry! But this is my experience! others might have a differnet experience. Iam looking myself to shift to another city which truly has everything in it. If anyone interested in making friends get back to me on this thread.

@VJ

VJ, its sad that you haven't exactly got a good opinion about Hyderabad but the reason maybe because you haven't met the right crowd.





Restrictions? Hyd is a little more conservative when compared to Bangalore or Mumbai but then the city has more than its share of pluses.



Cosmopolitan culture? If you happen to be in the IT belt, (location wise, ie Hitec City) it can't get more cosmopolitan that! If your area of work is in another industry then I'm afraid you will find the majority of the workforce comprising localites. I'm sure this is the case with many cities in India, so please don't crib there.



Open minded? Again maybe, you've met a bunch of people who are rigid in their outlook. You can only curse your fate for that!



Finally, don't you think its slightly odd to post a msg such as yours on a discussion board? If you are looking to make friends why don't you join one of the numerous activity-centric clubs in Hyderabad? There are quiz/oratory/theatre clubs here. When you share a common hobby with others, the chances of bonding will be much higher.



On that note, have a nice time while you are here!

[Sharjeel]

This Hyd totally SUCKS! The people are not open minded and I get a feeling as if there are a lot of restrictions in everything. Other than the food it has nothing like cosmopolitan culture. Iam sorry! But this is my experience! others might have a differnet experience. Iam looking myself to shift to another city which truly has everything in it. If anyone interested in making friends get back to me on this thread.

@VJ

VJ, its sad that you haven't exactly got a good opinion about Hyderabad but the reason maybe because you haven't met the right crowd.


Restrictions? Hyd is a little more conservative when compared to Bangalore or Mumbai but then the city has more than its share of pluses.

Cosmopolitan culture? If you happen to be in the IT belt, (location wise, ie Hitec City) it can't get more cosmopolitan that! If your area of work is in another industry then I'm afraid you will find the majority of the workforce comprising localites. I'm sure this is the case with many cities in India, so please don't crib there.

Open minded? Again maybe, you've met a bunch of people who are rigid in their outlook. You can only curse your fate for that!

Finally, don't you think its slightly odd to post a msg such as yours on a discussion board? If you are looking to make friends why don't you join one of the numerous activity-centric clubs in Hyderabad? There are quiz/oratory/theatre clubs here. When you share a common hobby with others, the chances of bonding will be much higher.

On that note, have a nice time while you are here!

Great advise!



Wonder if he is reading this....

[VJ]

Hello Bimbette!



Great Advice as was said by Sharjeel. Firstly Iam sorry about posting my opinions on this discussion thread! But I was helpless, Unable to find good friends, my own people/friends betrayed me (Its personal ofcourse). I was looking for a few good friends to chill out and at the same time some one to talk to and keep myself smiling.



My loneliness is killing me. The fact is that I myself an Andhrite (Telengana Region), I studied in Maharashtra and abroad, seen a few cities in and out of India. Presently in Hyd. Unable to cope up with the loneliness and the only friends I have now is my computer/TV etc. Iam a software engineer looking for a good job.



My another smart reason to post such a message was to see someone acknowledge to this thread and then I get to know someone to talk to or chat to and make some friends for myself. I welcome anyone interested in being a good friend of mine. And please let me know on how to join the clubs with all the specific details. Thanx!



@VJ

[CtrlAltDel]

AFAIK, no one here specifically "looked" for friends...keep posting n participating in discussions (either meaningful or pointless spam) and u'll easily make friends here. thts how it worked for the rest of us!

...Iam a software engineer looking for a good job...

u experienced or fresher?

[krishnazden]

u can join many groups,

join music or dance classes........

rather blaming on others,

there might be problem with u(finding right kind of friends)

dont blame on city(Hyd) for that matter.



i think , u should blame ur luck....that's all

and try new areas......

and u need to have little more patience to..

[VJ]

Iam a fresher ! But then everyone has some experience which is false! This is how it goes these days.



There is no problem with me! I tried! Thats all I can say for now! Lets see if any good in the next few days!



@VJ

[DRS]

Iam a fresher ! But then everyone has some experience which is false! This is how it goes these days.

There is no problem with me! I tried! Thats all I can say for now! Lets see if any good in the next few days!

@VJ

by now u made couple of friends, who atleast care to reply when they see you are frustrated?

[VJ]

Yeah! It looks like. my be I should start forcing my messages into these threads. Someone in hyd please get back to me with their contact numbers or email ids. I'll get back to them so as to have some kind of meeting or fun together.



@VJ

[Bimbette]

Hello Bimbette!

Great Advice as was said by Sharjeel. Firstly Iam sorry about posting my opinions on this discussion thread! But I was helpless, Unable to find good friends, my own people/friends betrayed me (Its personal ofcourse). I was looking for a few good friends to chill out and at the same time some one to talk to and keep myself smiling.

My loneliness is killing me. The fact is that I myself an Andhrite (Telengana Region), I studied in Maharashtra and abroad, seen a few cities in and out of India. Presently in Hyd. Unable to cope up with the loneliness and the only friends I have now is my computer/TV etc. Iam a software engineer looking for a good job.

My another smart reason to post such a message was to see someone acknowledge to this thread and then I get to know someone to talk to or chat to and make some friends for myself. I welcome anyone interested in being a good friend of mine. And please let me know on how to join the clubs with all the specific details. Thanx!

@VJ

Thanks Sharjeel and VJ.



VJ, I bet it gets lonely when you move to a new city (I've been there!) but you've got to get up and help yourself. When I was all alone in a new city, I went for a movie or two on my own (yes, alone!)/did lunch(es) all by myself/expanded my friend circle by doing group-related activities (treks/walks, the works!)



Why don't you try reading? A good book is better company than people sometimes.



There is an oratory club called YOC (Young Orator's Club) that meets at YMCA, Sec-bad every saturday.



Maybe you should drop in at YMCA sometime to find out more. You could play a sport there.

[mysterious babe]

Hi....reading this thread has got back some old memories....m back on fullhyd after a real long time....Hi Ctraltdel........



I can understand how u feel in a new city all by urself...i went thru this some time back and now when i have to look back that too was good fun...fullhyd too did keep me busy for some time....i did make some good freinds here...so VJ m sure u too will have some good freinds and beleive me hyderabad is not as bad as u think..infact i prefer hyd to bombay...just give it some time.

[Mayavi Morpheus]

Whoa! Mysterious babe Its been such a long time... where have you been? Welcome back and hope you post more often

[VJ]

Oh Nooooooooooo! Don't take me to reading again! Iam sick of that life. I read, read, read, read and readddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd. Iam too tired of all that _ stuff reading.



When I studied my MS my table was full of books and papers. Now I can't take it anymore. Iam sick of those stuff. Now looking to just chill out. I lost everyone due to my studies. I get a feeling that I might end up alone in this world. To avoid that I am trying to make some good friends.



Coming to Oratory, Iam not interested in becoming a good orator. Iam a natural leader with built in leadership skills. Time should prove that anyways. Its too early to boast myself.



Coming to new cities, I always liked to mingle with people from different backgrounds and different cultures. It gives me an element of happiness when I always see something new and different.



I might struggle in the beginning, but my open minded nature should pave me offfffffffff.



Keeping it final Lets hope for the best in HYD itself which is my Homecity and developing in every sense which I can see that. But still my loneliness is defeating me in every sense. Nothing is working for me these days. May be I should start chasing some girls now.



@VJ

[CtrlAltDel]

Hi....reading this thread has got back some old memories....m back on fullhyd after a real long time....Hi Ctraltdel........

WOW!!!!! u are back!!!! where were u all these days? i tried calling u a few months ago n listened to a message saying the number cannot be reached... are u still in hyd?

[betty]

Nothing is working for me these days. May be I should start chasing some girls now.

@VJ

*miss goody-two-shoes style* you men !!!!

[SaberPanWalla]

Vj muh boy..U need proffesional help. making friends is not at all a big problem. Searching for someone to be your friend on an Internet Forum??



gawd..what's this world come to??

[VJ]

Hello SaberPanWalla!



Iam not sure of your age, but I should remind you the era u r in. U r living in the internet era today .



And y not internet is the best source today people get to know each other .





@VJ

[SaberPanWalla]

wow...that was sooo funnny. Will u marry me???



U said u were a software engineer. They are supposed to be cool and witty.



On the internet no one is what hey claim to be, unless u are the exception who wears his heart on his sleeve. get a life Mr.Hotshot. u can do better than this.

[VJ]

Hi SPW!



Its true, on the internet no one is what they claim to be. May be that can stand as a base for friendship. U never know don't you?



I said Iam looking for only friends and good friends, and not for a life partner.



Yeah! May be I can do better than this. Thanx anyways!



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[SPW]

good for u moite.