Hyd Gals!

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cant help it if there r more Mr.wrongz then Mr. Rightz..!

enjoy the mistakes as long as they r there!

once u meet a Right, there wud be very few ops to "wrong" anybody

[3 T'z]

cant help it if there r more Mr.wrongz then Mr. Rightz..!

enjoy the mistakes as long as they r there!
once u meet a Right, there wud be very few ops to "wrong" anybody

ahh...we'r human beingz can alwayz make mistakez...b4 n aftr..!

[CtrlAltDel]

cant help it if there r more Mr.wrongz then Mr. Rightz..!

enjoy the mistakes as long as they r there!
once u meet a Right, there wud be very few ops to "wrong" anybody

ahh...we'r human beingz can alwayz make mistakez...b4 n aftr..!

atta gal 3-T'z! luv yr attitude! keep it up!

[Habitual Perfectionist]

Off topic Three Tenses...but are you related to Phat?

[Ar!e$]

Mistakes n mistakes..so many guys end up takin wrong turns b4 they find a perfect match??

[s]

I think a lot of men in general just assume that they can walk up to some girl and ask for her number, and if they get nothing it means that the girl isn't fast or hep or cool. They assume the girl's the one with a problem, being uptight and all that. To me it's pretty obvious but maybe men don't realise this: when you come up and directly ask for my name or number you seem like a frikkin sleazeball. I don't know who you are or what you do or what your character is like. Why on earth should I have any interest in you? I mean the reason why you apporached me is because I look attractive or like a potential catch or something. But the point is that it's based on appearances. You know nothing about me, you like me at that point for how I look and that's a big downer!



Instead, if you're introduced to me by a friend of mine I might have a tad more curiosity about you, cos someone I trust has partially vouched for your character. You're no longer a random dude. So my advice to guys is to go to a girl through someone you know. My advice to girls, don't get carried away by some stranger being interested in you, it's something that's started off for the wrong reasons, and lastly my advice to friends, if you know a guy's a jerk, please don't mess with your female friend's life by enabling contact between this jerk and her.

[Habitual Perfectionist]

Good point there S....but the counterview is....that a guy maybe very nice to girl A as he wants to use her as a conduit to girl B. And once he's introduced to B by A, he shows his true colours. What to do then?



In the same way, a stranger (may not be a total stranger...like someone who works in your office complex and crosses paths with you everyday or someone staying in your locality) maybe a very nice person. Should your lack of familiarity be the sole governing factor in your decision to go ahead with the relationship?



I've seen that girls usually are endowed with a sixth sense much stronger to what guys have. Better to trust your own instincts rather than someone else's.



Also, nobody comes into the world knowing others. I've seen a lot of girls saying (especially in chatrooms), "I don't talk to strangers". Why the heck are you on a public forum then? Keep your circle limited to your relatives and family friends and never venture out.



I feel that one should be a little more open in this regard and at the same time, keep your eyes and ears open. Be careful, but not cynical. Not every stranger is a creep.

[Habitual Perfectionist]

Further, what do you expect one to approach you for, if not your appearance? How would one know about your other characterstics without coming closer to you?



After going through your posts, I somehow feel that you've turned cynical because of some bad experience. My 2 cents (though I know very well that I'll be wasting them, but can't help being what I am)....Do not look at everyone with the same yardsticks. We are all different people, we think different, we behave different. Stereotypes are good only for jokes. Period.

[daisy]

cant agree more with you there HP

[Truffles]

Further, what do you expect one to approach you for, if not your appearance? How would one know about your other characterstics without coming closer to you?

After going through your posts, I somehow feel that you've turned cynical because of some bad experience. My 2 cents (though I know very well that I'll be wasting them, but can't help being what I am)....Do not look at everyone with the same yardsticks. We are all different people, we think different, we behave different. Stereotypes are good only for jokes. Period.

I agree HP. I suppose men and women have to grow out of stereotypes. Its not unusual for most men around the world to sort of size women up when they see a good one..and most women are aware of this. As long as men approach women with an intention to know them rather than with a "hey you look good baby..wanna go home with me" type attitute, Im sure most women wouldnt mind talking to even strangers in a public place. And even for the fairer sex, I suppose a little more open attitude towards men would serve better..who knows the best guy either as a friend or as a potential mate would have passed you by simply based on a presumption.

[3T'z...P_P_F]

Off topic Three Tenses...but are you related to Phat?

lol..naa...dnt even know her..

[3 T'z..P_P_F]

Further, what do you expect one to approach you for, if not your appearance? How would one know about your other characterstics without coming closer to you?

After going through your posts, I somehow feel that you've turned cynical because of some bad experience. My 2 cents (though I know very well that I'll be wasting them, but can't help being what I am)....Do not look at everyone with the same yardsticks. We are all different people, we think different, we behave different. Stereotypes are good only for jokes. Period.

I agree HP. I suppose men and women have to grow out of stereotypes. Its not unusual for most men around the world to sort of size women up when they see a good one..and most women are aware of this. As long as men approach women with an intention to know them rather than with a "hey you look good baby..wanna go home with me" type attitute, Im sure most women wouldnt mind talking to even strangers in a public place. And even for the fairer sex, I suppose a little more open attitude towards men would serve better..who knows the best guy either as a friend or as a potential mate would have passed you by simply based on a presumption.

completely agree wid u there truffes... but i think gen. all grlz r nt v open 2 strangers...they wouldnt feel comfortable givin their no's 2 strangers...

The point i think "s"...wanted to make is tht unless the grl getz into a comfort level wid the guy i mean after being past a stranger the grl usually wnt have any prob openin up wid him.

so instead of jst goin up 2 a grl n askin for her no. atleast have a lite chat wid her for a while.. anythin gen,jst tryin 2 know her..then i think da guyz would get more positive results..

[s]

Thx 3 T'z..P_P_F for clarifying/backing me up on that. By no means am I asserting that all strangers are a bad choice, or that all guys introduced to you by someone familar are a good choice. No way. My angle was just one isolated point about this whole guys approaching girls thing. But someone else made the other point I had in mind which was that do not approach with the I-hope-I-get-lucky-with-this-chick attitude.If you're an intelligent straightforward person who has something good or funny to say, I'll hear you out.Why I'll even engage in a pleasant conversation.But only as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.That's a very sleaxy, unnerving situation for girls.It may flatter some women but not me.In the end I can speak only for myself.

[3 T'z]

ur welcome "s".

In the end there r "n" type of ppl., "n" no. of opinions ,"n" no. of views, "n" no. of approaches and "n" results...

[CtrlAltDel]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:

a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."

makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

[3 T'z]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

[Just Another Human]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

I don't think it's just with the boys - it's exactly the same with the guys as well - maybe the places are not public as Necklace Road and also, maybe, they use some other sentences - and the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

[CtrlAltDel]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

.....the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

thats what they are suppossed to do...its rather a test of the boy's power of persuasion and charm

[Just Another Human]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

.....the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

thats what they are suppossed to do...its rather a test of the boy's power of persuasion and charm

Guess they want people to be at their feet always

[Ar!e$]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

.....the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

thats what they are suppossed to do...its rather a test of the boy's power of persuasion and charm

Guess they want people to be at their feet always

hey that aint true..

[Just Another Human]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

.....the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

thats what they are suppossed to do...its rather a test of the boy's power of persuasion and charm

Guess they want people to be at their feet always

hey that aint true..

I don't know akidna but I saw a lot of my friends loosing everything (especially their own self-respect and individuality) because of gals - hence, I made the statement. It may not be true

[Ar!e$]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

.....the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

thats what they are suppossed to do...its rather a test of the boy's power of persuasion and charm

Guess they want people to be at their feet always

hey that aint true..

I don't know akidna but I saw a lot of my friends loosing everything (especially their own self-respect and individuality) because of gals - hence, I made the statement. It may not be true

yeah i knw wht u mean..but all rnt the same..u may end up finding good ppl as well..wid good morals n character.

[Just Another Human]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

.....the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

thats what they are suppossed to do...its rather a test of the boy's power of persuasion and charm

Guess they want people to be at their feet always

hey that aint true..

I don't know akidna but I saw a lot of my friends loosing everything (especially their own self-respect and individuality) because of gals - hence, I made the statement. It may not be true

yeah i knw wht u mean..but all rnt the same..u may end up finding good ppl as well..wid good morals n character.

That's rite. Gender has got nothing to do with morals and character.

[CtrlAltDel]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

.....the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

thats what they are suppossed to do...its rather a test of the boy's power of persuasion and charm

Guess they want people to be at their feet always

hey that aint true..

I don't know akidna but I saw a lot of my friends loosing everything (especially their own self-respect and individuality) because of gals - hence, I made the statement. It may not be true

IMO, girls with loose morals are fun to date


yeah i knw wht u mean..but all rnt the same..u may end up finding good ppl as well..wid good morals n character.

That's rite. Gender has got nothing to do with morals and character.

[Just Another Human]

...as long as that conversation/interaction doesn't start off on a desperate note like asking for my name or number, or walking around with friends checking me out and then walking over with your friends looking on.

:lol:
a lot of males in hyderabad and many other places do exactly that...a goup of friends will be in the background egging a boy and he nervously approaches a girl with a goofy grin on his face and say things like "Hello...i want to make friendship with u..."
makes me laff! i see it regularly in necklace road!

EXACTLYYYYYYYYY !

.....the gals are so clever that they don't come right to the point and beat around the bush

thats what they are suppossed to do...its rather a test of the boy's power of persuasion and charm

Guess they want people to be at their feet always

hey that aint true..

I don't know akidna but I saw a lot of my friends loosing everything (especially their own self-respect and individuality) because of gals - hence, I made the statement. It may not be true

IMO, girls with loose morals are fun to date


yeah i knw wht u mean..but all rnt the same..u may end up finding good ppl as well..wid good morals n character.

That's rite. Gender has got nothing to do with morals and character.