She burned the Rice AGAIN!

by **SimarikSmokin** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 7:16 am

Ok this one is for both males and females:

How many would prefer a Husband doing the cooking and cleaning?

And how many prefer the stay-at-home-wifes? then having a career?

And how many prefer a good traditonal wife? like wearing saris etc,cooking a good indian meal well the top one is the same except its different

Ok i would prefer both me and my husband to do equal work, like cooking and cleaning i actually think its adorably romantic when the husband cooks for the wife. I mean when i have kids i hope he doesn't think he is exempt from taking care of it or helping me with it. Also i want a husband would is caring and calling me at time and and also be able to cry in front of me i think its the most beautiful thing seeing a man cry, it depresses me and it just is beautiful after bringing a kid in this world.

So what do you prefer?

by **OneMinuteCooler** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 7:54 am

Okay, first off, I dont think "kids" are "its" lolol :wink:

And I sort-of agree with everything you said.

Except that I wouldnt want my husband doing half the cooking and cleaning (and usual "sample" wifes work) I'd want him to help out ever now and then with dishes, vacuuming, etc. but I sitll want most of the work, because to me, doing those things makes me feel like a true women, and I guess a wife too. But I also want to have a real career on the side. Just nothing full time since theres house work to be done and kids to take care of.

But like you said, I want a cute husband that isnt afraid to cry in front of me, expecially after bringing a child into the world. And I want him to call me from his work when he has time, or to make time for me. And it would also be nice if he called me even if I was at work. It would make my day better.

by **SimarikSmokin** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 8:07 am

Well i can cook, i can be a good wife, and i am great listener, and i don't know how to wear saris

by **OneMinuteCooler** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 8:15 am

Those are great qualities. and hey, your husband might not even care about having a traditional indian wife wearing a sari

by **Adonis** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 9:12 am

takes a note ** rememeber to cry after bringing a child to the world**

well about the sarees, they shuld be worn for the special moments !!!...coz indian chicks are just look god damn sexy in sarees !

by **azazel** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 12:41 pm

SimarikSmokin wrote:Ok this one is for both males and females

azazel reporting for duty, ma'am..

And how many prefer the stay-at-home-wifes? then having a career?

no preferences in any way, joru ki marzi.. depends on wht she wants to do, but would like her to maintain a grip on domestic angle too..

And how many prefer a good traditonal wife? like wearing saris etc,cooking a good indian meal well the top one is the same except its different

its Ok either way, cooking to zaroori hai.. me cant cook to save my life! wearing sarees is preferable, too much westernization se apni tabiyat kharaab hoti hai.. :lol:

Ok i would prefer both me and my husband to do equal work, like cooking and cleaning i actually think its adorably romantic when the husband cooks for the wife. I mean when i have kids i hope he doesn't think he is exempt from taking care of it or helping me with it. Also i want a husband would is caring and calling me at time and and also be able to cry in front of me i think its the most beautiful thing seeing a man cry, it depresses me and it just is beautiful after bringing a kid in this world.
So what do you prefer?

like i said, work is her prerogative. 'cooking' to nahee aati, seekhna padega, never knw kab kaam aayega :roll:

me loves kids, itne bhanja/i 's ka maamu hona mazaak ki baat nahee hai :wink:

crying? vaise mai rota nahee magar kabhi kabhi its very relieving..

by **CtrlAltDel** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 2:07 pm

well....i love to cook and occassionally do it too....so no probs there...

i am not good in cleaning, so my wife is happy doing it herself

i dont like the image of the "traditional wife". i think its boring and guaranteed to leave the couple bored of each other in a few yrs. i dont like to see my wife in just sarees, except on some occassions. in fact what she wears is her choice and i leave it to her entirely.

at home i help her in caring for my son...i even change his nappies...

abt Crying...i have never done it...so i dunno if i can....but i dont think it makes any difference in my outlook

by **asli_badmash** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 3:39 pm

SimarikSmokin wrote:Ok this one is for both males and females:

So you are back.. Hehehe.. All the drama. :roll:

Anyway Welcome back(I maybe late in writing this, so dont get on my case).. whatever made you change your mind SS... maybe its all the "shayeri"!

SimarikSmokin wrote:How many would prefer a Husband doing the cooking and cleaning?

Husband cooking or the wife cooking doesnot matter; the darn KIDS have to be fed! Taking truns is a good option.

SimarikSmokin wrote:And how many prefer the stay-at-home-wifes? then having a career?

Please... Women shouldnt stay at home. They become like ZC :lol: then they start speculating. But its her choice! I beleive women should retain the capability to earn moolah for house. What If the man of the house decides to take a break, the women can take over and do the earning bit.

SimarikSmokin wrote:And how many prefer a good traditonal wife? like wearing saris etc,cooking a good indian meal well the top one is the same except its different

Saree's kick ass.

I mean they make a woman look sensational, awesome, sexy.. and everything a man can ever imagine. A mother, a wife and a Woman. But a dress should be worn acording to the occasion, you cant wear a saree to a disco and the same way you cant wear a mini-skirt to a Shaadi.

SimarikSmokin wrote:Ok i would prefer both me and my husband to do equal work, like cooking and cleaning i actually think its adorably romantic when the husband cooks for the wife. I mean when i have kids i hope he doesn't think he is exempt from taking care of it or helping me with it. Also i want a husband would is caring and calling me at time and and also be able to cry in front of me i think its the most beautiful thing seeing a man cry, it depresses me and it just is beautiful after bringing a kid in this world.
So what do you prefer?

Cant make out what you mean here. Anyway, should a man cry only after the baby comes into this world, or should he cry even before that. Can a man cry by himself, like I do, when A81 doesnt talk to me... (Heheheheh :twisted:

). Taking into consideration everything you have written; looks like you want to marry a GIRL. Do you ? :twisted:

~badmash~

by **Lucifer** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 5:32 pm

Me is looking for a wife who works and earns the bread while I do the cooking and the cleaning. Anyone interested may contact:

Lucifer

666, Devil's Street

Hades

Ph: 666666

by **marko** » Wed Jul 28, 2004 5:55 pm

50/50. whats good for the goose is good for the gander (?spell?)

by **Aquarian81** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 12:46 am

Can a man cry by himself, like I do, when A81 doesnt talk to me... :twisted:

(Heheheheh ).

Hehe, do you really cry badmash?? lol. Your cute!

We all want a perfect spouse................we just have to make sure we can be all that we can be.

by **SimarikSmokin** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 1:13 am

Well i can't wear a sari don't know how, and well i think its romantic when two people cook together it shows alof of chemistry.

And why are my posts here not in NRI's?????/

and i am a pretty good cook, can cook delicious food, and ni said it a beautiful site, i mean it just is.

can't explain but if my husband ever cries in front of me i willl just stare and look at the wonderful site!!! i am most probablly scary the crap out of all the guys here huh????/

by **Jaan** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 3:45 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:at home i help her in caring for my son...i even change his nappies...

aww! Hey, Ctrl bhaiya, I remember your post that your son was 11 months old, and that was quite a while ago...Did you guys celebrate his 1st birthday?

Jaan

by **CtrlAltDel** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 9:52 am

SimarikSmokin wrote:...if my husband ever cries in front of me i willl just stare and look at the wonderful site!!!

:? he cries in a website? or did u mean "sight"...?

by **CtrlAltDel** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 9:55 am

Jaan wrote:Hey, Ctrl bhaiya,

Jaan wrote:...Did you guys celebrate his 1st birthday?

ya, his first budday was celebrated recently....

by **SimarikSmokin** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 10:00 am

Ok i love b-day cake so my b-day is in 2 more months not counting august so when i come to india i am gonna celebrate my b-day again with pineapple cake i love those pineaple cake i can't describe it you get at Baker's Inn

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 10:01 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:
Jaan wrote:Hey, Ctrl bhaiya,

by **CtrlAltDel** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 10:16 am

Mayavi Morpheus wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
Jaan wrote:Hey, Ctrl bhaiya,

@MM

by **Alexis** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 10:45 am

@CAD and MM!!!!!

You two be crazy!

by **CtrlAltDel** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 11:15 am

Alexis wrote::lol: @CAD and MM!!!!!

You two be crazy!

all coz of 'Jaan... :roll:

by **azazel** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 12:08 pm

SimarikSmokin wrote:Well i can't wear a sari don't know how, and well i think its romantic when two people cook together it shows alof of chemistry.

will learn asap..

And why are my posts here not in NRI's?????

yea, why?

and i am a pretty good cook, can cook delicious food, and ni said it a beautiful site, i mean it just is.can't explain but if my husband ever cries in front of me i willl just stare and look at the wonderful site!!! i am most probablly scary the crap out of all the guys here huh????/

hopefully, will have a sampling of tht.. dun see how it is a wonderful site [CAD is just jealous u see

] but nonetheless, all the best in yer quest :twisted:

by **asli_badmash** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 12:46 pm

azazel wrote:
SimarikSmokin wrote:Well i can't wear a sari don't know how, and well i think its romantic when two people cook together it shows alof of chemistry.

will learn asap..

Learn Kya...

Saree pehenana...*shakes his head in disbelief* tsk... tsk...

~badmash~

by **azazel** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 12:59 pm

asli_badmash wrote:Learn Kya... Saree pehenana...*shakes his head in disbelief* tsk... tsk...

rotfl.. see brudda, the clouds havent cleared yet.. failed to see the ambiguity i invited :twisted:

Cooking is wht i meant..

by **asli_badmash** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 1:10 pm

Aquarian81 wrote: Hehe, do you really cry badmash?? lol. Your cute!

How do I prove it...

It has been raining here for the past three days and I dont know how many of those drops were my tears.

Saara Hyderabad namkeen ho gaya hai.. :cry:

Aur mere aansoon hain ke rukte hi nahin.

~badmash~

by **asli_badmash** » Thu Jul 29, 2004 1:17 pm

azazel wrote:
asli_badmash wrote:Learn Kya... Saree pehenana...*shakes his head in disbelief* tsk... tsk...

rotfl.. see brudda, the clouds havent cleared yet.. failed to see the ambiguity i invited
Cooking is wht i meant..

I dont know... cloudS kafi gahne lagte hain... (Hyderabad mein). I know few Cross-Dressing queens/faries.. holi pe aate hain; maybe they can help you out.

Heheheheheeh

~badmash~

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