another hindu/muslim marriage

[amber]

I am a muslim girl and my boyfriend is hindu. we are deeply in love and can't imagine life w/o eachother. we both cannot change our religions b/c we strongly believe in them. my parents and his mom might eventually accept us but his dad probably wont. we've tried so hard to let go of eachother but its too difficult. what do we do?

[Mayavi Morpheus]

Imma Mayavi 'nostradamus' Morpheus



On Jan 11, 2006

lol... after I read that thread about the 'North American' hindu boy and his Hyderabadi muslim fiance, I expected to see thread like 'Hindu girl and muslim boyfriend/husband' and voila in two weeks we had not one but two such threads of hindu girls marrying muslim boys. Then I expected to see a muslim girl claiming to have a hindu boy friend, but my predictions were slightly incorrect.... we saw one more from a guy its like they've all been waiting for someone to take the lead and suddenly everyone is out with their stories. No offence to anyone. I am not doubting any stories... I personally know couple of muslim guys with hindu girl friends and the vice versa. So it is not uncommon

Anyway, whiz bhai, can you share more about your experiences with this afghan girls family... like where they live, how they reacted, the problems u faced yada yada. I dont know much about afghans except that the wimmen are hawt

Now I predict that DQ and Jquader will both post in this thread

[CtrlAltDel]

good prediction, mayavi

what do we do?

i suggest u get married anyway. parents always come around, dont worry

[smack]

What matters is ur conviction. Go ahead, take the plunge.

[jquader]

good prediction, mayavi

what do we do?

i suggest u get married anyway. parents always come around, dont worry

wuts so " " abt it cad:evil:

wrong prediction... i'm sick n tired replyin to such threads

i dont have time rite now

[Mayavi Morpheus]

Now I predict that DQ and Jquader will both post in this thread

wuts so " " abt it cad:evil:
wrong prediction... i'm sick n tired replyin to such threads
i dont have time rite now

you did post!

[Parinda]

Imma Mayavi 'nostradamus' Morpheus


Now I predict that DQ and Jquader will both post in this thread

I have a prediction to make too everytime its ahindu boy and a muslim girl(fictious) Mayavi Morpheus' post will be with in 5-10 minutes of the original post, I have another prediction to make Morpheus will deny that the post by Amber was actually made by him, someone needs to have a life..Duh!!



While I am at it I ll make another one err I mean prediction , CAD will come out too denying the fact that Amber post was made by Mayavi Morphues ,as if they communicate (which they actually do ..) pms like ..



CAD: hey Mayavi you post like a Muslim girl...I ll act like a Hindu guy , I guess he doesnt have to act he is actually one..



and then Mayavi goes one like" I am a Muslim girl ..Blah blah blah ....."..



Ok Mayavi I hope may be in your next Janma (rebirth in Hinduism) you be a Muslim girl so that you dont have to be a impostor again ,but since you have been a impostor in this Janma , you will end up being a Shudra in your next Janam, becuase my Brahmin friend told me that any one being a Highest respected cast Brahmin and Lowest disrespected cast Shudar/Dalit in Hinduism is determined by the actions he did in his last birth..

[Mayavi Morpheus]

dang it! my sinister design to defame pious muslim wimmen by associating them with hindu guys had been unearthed by super shmaart detective parinda



pssst cad bhai, check your pm about my new, fool proof, 400% improved yeeevil plan *wink* *wink*

Ok Mayavi I hope may be in your next Janma (rebirth in Hinduism) you be a Muslim girl so that you dont have to be a impostor again

I might have been a muslim girl who comitted zina in my previous life and probably was stoned to death, and on judgement day allah condemned me to be born as a kafir and live in a kuffr world

See, my past life is catching up with me and still committing zina even if its only on internet boards

[parinda]

and on judgement day allah condemned me to be born as a kafir and live in a kuffr world
See, my past life is catching up with me and still committing zina even if its only on internet boards

I thought rebirth concept was unique to Hinduism , cause I am nto aware of it being in Islam, anywayz what does RSS have to say about the fact that if you were pious enough in your last life ,i.e any one of last seven lives from number 1 to number 7 wait a sec it should be not mor ethan number 6 technically, you should die as a baby, this again was told by the Brahmin friend of mine and the Brahmin friend and the dalit friedn had a real go at each other over this, anywayz its for the RSS to figure out ..



and why would you post as a muslims girl I mean why would you do that ,unless you are some kinda cross dressing tranny

[parinda]

my past life is catching up with me and still committing zina even if its only on internet boards

what a loser you gotta get out more you tranny..

[Mayavi Morpheus]

First things first, you posted just 20 min after I did, does that mean you are just another one of my multiple personalities??? tell me it aint so

I thought rebirth concept was unique to Hinduism , cause I am nto aware of it being in Islam,

Allah (SWT), the creater, the originaotr, the ever so merciful, is capable of doing anything. Are you trying to hint that allah (swt) doesnt know what he revealed to muhammed (pbuh)?? You just earned your death by stoning

anywayz what does RSS have to say about the fact that if you were pious enough in your last life ,i.e any one of last seven lives from number 1 to number 7 wait a sec it should be not mor ethan number 6 technically, you should die as a baby, this again was told by the Brahmin friend of mine and the Brahmin friend and the dalit friedn had a real go at each other over this, anywayz its for the RSS to figure out ..

I will try to get answers from our RSS leaders (pbut and other alphabetical soup) when we meet next time

and why would you post as a muslims girl I mean why would you do that ,unless you are some kinda cross dressing tranny

I dont know, why dont you tell us?

[parinda..back to nest...]

First things first, you posted just 20 min after I did, does that mean you are just another one of my multiple personalities??? tell me it aint so

well I havent been as consistent enough as you were ,come on admit it you know that!!

[Mayavi Morpheus]

well I havent been as consistent enough as you were ,come on admit it you know that!!

still, that post was just 20 min after my post. That means you and I are one and the same... damn, why is my split personality always a muslim woman??? First amber and now Parinda... why god why?? ooops... which god?

[Mayavi Morpheus]

Parinda posts at 2.18

Mayavi Morpheus posts at 2.25



sigh... i have been talking to myself again

[parinda]

well I havent been as consistent enough as you were ,come on admit it you know that!!

still, that post was just 20 min after my post. That means you and I are one and the same... damn, why is my split personality always a muslim woman??? First amber and now Parinda... why god why?? ooops... which god?

FYI ...parinda is masculine..

[CtrlAltDel]

MM...u shud see a shrink at the earliest...first "FundooMullah", then "NarasimhaNaidu", followed by "SamarasimhaReddy" and then a filipino girl (forgot that id). now u are "amber" and "parinda"....



beofre u lose track of who u are, take some professional help...

[bT]

Get help from http://www.islam-qa.com/ or just google "muslim non-muslim marriage"



you are not the first one nor will be the last but decide the matter... love is not a crime nor marriage... but if your bf is not going to change his religion after marriage and than your islamic belifes becomes nullifies. Yeah no one will come and tell you, that you can not pray namaz or keep fasting more in general many people will not even bother by it and Yes parents will come to common terms eventually... but when you say you have strong faith and your bf i don't see why one of you can back out of their religion and accept one path...

[Dream_Prinz]

Forget the social systems! Enjoy the romance. Get married when both of you are somewhere around 60....

[CtrlAltDel]

...when you say you have strong faith and your bf i don't see why one of you can back out of their religion and accept one path...

exactly my point. its better for the two to follow one religion in order to avoid future conflicts esp with kids around

[Mayavi Morpheus]

exactly my point. its better for the two to follow one religion in order to avoid future conflicts esp with kids around

Isn't that the whole issue? Who should convert and why? For the society, it is like one person sacrificing more than the other and then they don't take it kindly.

[CtrlAltDel]

exactly my point. its better for the two to follow one religion in order to avoid future conflicts esp with kids around

Isn't that the whole issue? Who should convert and why? For the society, it is like one person sacrificing more than the other and then they don't take it kindly.

the matter of who shud convert shud be left to the couple to decide. i am not saying that they shud not follow two different religions, but merely pointing out the potential for future conflict.

[learned scholar]

mosslem father + hindu mother = musslem cupple + musslim children

hindu father+ mosslem mother = naat passible saaaar

result is wid hindu+mussalman marriage u wont get hindu kids u get mah point ???????

[bT]

exactly my point. its better for the two to follow one religion in order to avoid future conflicts esp with kids around

Isn't that the whole issue? Who should convert and why? For the society, it is like one person sacrificing more than the other and then they don't take it kindly.

the matter of who shud convert shud be left to the couple to decide. i am not saying that they shud not follow two different religions, but merely pointing out the potential for future conflict.

I hate future conflicts which breaks couples apart... I mean when one goes so far into looking beyond the religion than they should figure this thing out before it becomes a conflict... it's one thing when both are hardly belivers but totally other when they are some what belivers because when kids comes into picture it is hard to ask u'r spouse to let the children follow your religion... I see all the time here at masjid's in usa where guys as old as 16 or 17 are just confused, they don't know how to pray because their parents weren't able to agree on one religion.... it doesn't make me mad but rather sad that even if the kid wants to follow one religion he will have only one parents support

[Hindu/Muslim Equation for a ma]

[quote="amber"]I am a muslim girl and my boyfriend is hindu. we are deeply in love and can't imagine life w/o eachother. we both cannot change our religions b/c we strongly believe in them. my parents and his mom might eventually accept us but his dad probably wont. we've tried so hard to let go of eachother but its too difficult. what do we do?[/quote=Hindu/Muslim Equation for a marriage"] What surfaces at the end of the day? What would you like your kids to associate with in terms of the values and cultural strains - requirements - and moreso understanding where we are coming from? Unless it is not important and we treat our future generations as meagre products with NO BRAND. Its like have a NO NAME Brand at President's Choice!!??



MOst youngsters fail to look at the Forest and see only the TREE? Immaturity has its own value and price to be paid for in part or on full. Lets face it? UNLESS - you wish to not pass on any values you guys are carrying with you and POOF!!!!!!! In one generation - everything you so proudly pinned on your chest as a part of your values witll vaporize with time. What yoiu inherited from your homes witll transform into a 'convenienjt' set of "COMPROMISING VALUES" whi ch will dilute the content.



What do you want to give back to your children at the end of the day - Hindu / Muslim does not matter.